Parenting Lessons before Spankings

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This article was inspired when I began researching Viminal Hill and the energy within the fallen Roman period. What I’ve come to realize is there is generational energy and pattern broken down in lessons within the meanings of the seven hills of Rome. Parenting lessons before spankings, are moments where parents get to see Light before choosing to punish their child; moments they get to explore uplifting the uniqueness within their child instead chipping away at what could become.

The rod of lessons, not abuse, is one where we get to see Light show us our own shadow or the lessons of what we can do to help another in Divine Timing. The directions for doing so come from within, in the moments we need them most. The harm spankings cause are held within epidemics within systematic limitations of society.

In this article I’m going to breakdown the lessons, in opportunities one has when they choose to teach a child instead spanking them. It is a moment of clarity between wanting to “make a man (woman) out of them” or allow them to become a man (woman).

As always there are choices at every crossroad. The narrow path is held within a form of love where you uplift love by wrapping your gift given to you, with the knowledge worthy of love and value.

Parenting Lessons before Spankings

This is the positive journey along a path to honor a child’s inner temple of peace, wisdom, and understanding nurturing their purpose and future abundance both within your home and beyond it also. When one soaks within the potential of their uniqueness and creative innovative moments of possibility, the seeds are prepared for many fields of opportunities.

There is inner fire or purpose within each child being nurtured within forging potentials even parents may not realize. They see and hear before they speak, and if birth or life changes this in some way the senses heighten to help them navigate life in new ways.

The Cusp of Life

The cusp of life is a lesson to wonder about. A waxing and waning moon has two edges one longer and one shorter inset to one another and the points where they meet is the cusp, bringing light to darkness.

The darkness could be shadowy and scary, but can be filled with dreams and nighttime peacefulness. The space one creates in these moments to help themselves is filled with possibilities. You can void expectations and explore what couldn’t be seen within those limitation before.

A cusp of life is within the tiny mountains or hills within our mouths. Our teeth help breakdown nourishment before digesting what we need for life itself. They help express whom we and what we need. They can be used for many cusp moments in life itself.

These are the moments where there is a change from one state to another; from one potential to another.

The Hills from Mountains

There are seven aspects of mountains within a growth journey:

1. integrity
2. expansion of knowledge of value
3. deep connection with self
4. healthy passion for life
5. identities in natural ways of being
6. creative natures of being
7. boundary level worthy of knowing, your Lord and Savior Jesus Christ

As time ticks away or flies by the emotions of life, hot air, frozen shifts, and stormy weathers of many seasons erode these mountain opportunities and the hills become what we look for. We look for the hills because the rock we were to walk upon has shifted to a hillside. The hillside holds:

1. energy for life
2. nourishment
3. sacrifice
4. seasons
5. roots
6. growth
7. abundance worthy of knowing, your Lord God Almighty

Parent lessons before spankings need to consider a cusp of life within the life for your child.

Are you chipping away at their abundance when you chose to cross a boundary to harm your child; a gift of life for your life?

What growth was taken in those moments when you shifted opportunities within their own creative natures of being?

Are you nurturing the roots for your family in hate, or will you honor the identities held within their natural ways of being?

Are the seasons you see your child in, one of a positive nature filled with a healthy passion for life? If not, what stripped this away?

Sacrifice is knowing what may become and knowing giving up something is worthy of doing. What time can be given up so your child can develop a deep connection with themselves?

The lessons in nourishment are they impoverished from punishments, from not seeing the expansion of knowledge being of value?

When you look into your child’s eyes, do you see the energy for life?

What is the integrity held within love are you reflecting as energy for life when you nurture the roots for your family?

The Rod of Intention

The rod of intention is generally of abuse, or punishments. Spankings harm children, and this abuse destroys and breaks a child. Justifying it is a makeshift shield when uncertainty is held with confusion and fear. One holds the willow branch for a whipping stick and chooses to walk away from love, and the opportunity to see a child blossom and show seeds of potential with knowledge in lessons given to them instead. This is the emotional purification of potential. Spankings don’t do this.

Strength is quietness and trust. Nurturing this builds strength within the roots of the family. Do you want this to be the identifying force for the family, instead of violating power diminishing abundance?

The paths taken can be either empowering or disempowering. You can choose to separate from hate by walking away and tearing apart how the hate became through forgiveness, or asunder occurs for that child as your target.

The cusp of love coming together within genetics, separates and conjunction becomes a disjunction.

Changing to a Rod of Lessons

When you shift to a lesson, without abuse, and time the lesson within Divine Timing, the rock chipped away under your family home begins to heal once more. If you see disjunction you get to explore how and what could become. If this was their own unique flair of being, or if your healing and theirs is held within a growth opportunity. Expecting children to be exactly like family isn’t always possible as their purpose for life is held within large fields of opportunities, just as your was before life became.

The Rod of Lessons is a different use of the willow branch, within the metaphysical. When exploring this, be careful not to twist what could become. There are paths, ways of being, and journeys to explore for everyone. Everyone gets to choose to accept to walk a road, pathway, or explore wonderous adventures along life’s journey.

These are design to be distinct, particular, and special for everyone. They lead to knowing and experiencing a fulfilling purpose in life. We are designed to conceive, bring forth, produce, shine, and be beautiful in our own unique ways. We are designed to obtain the fruit encapsulated with wisdom, love, and understanding to help seed new potential in life.

Parenting lesson before spankings includes seeing this potential above, so crossing over the boundary to hate and abuse is not done. It is uplifting love and lovingly wrapping your child’s story around them, willing to conceive the extraordinary for your family. You know the relative value of the roots you are nurturing, embrace this and love the potential within a new grounding worthiness.

The joy of parenting through lessons before events happen is abundance. This is the energy being asked of all families so spankings don’t happen. Parenting lessons before spankings is the pathway to avoid choosing to stand behind the makeshift shield of punishments. Once you know you don’t want the shield of punishments any longer, and can stand facing any storm that may become, you can forgive to alchemize the need for this makeshift shield in your life. For a faster, and efficient shift within potential, healing the energy stuck and pulling you into the rage faster than desired is the way also.