Rod of Lessons not Abuse
History within the spare the rod and spoil the child is one of a rough movement; one that many are still trying to break free from. What if I told you God meant the rod being one built within a lesson from within, not from a stick? The simple misconception of what was and what has been inherent in almost every home for hundreds of years has created a movement of diminished love.
This diminished love is one inherent in every divorce, every choice for prostitution, every choice for rape, every choice for sex before marriage, every choice of adultery, and every choice of rape within marriage. This lack within love is inherent in every judgment toward another. With every justification for judging someone that makes any decision not the same as yourself, there is the diminished version of love that is within.
Please note there are many insights given by the Lord God, Jesus, an Archangel, as well as many Ascended Masters also known as Master Teachers from the days of old.
Rod of Lessons not Abuse
History has children being hit with objects for lessons that could have been mitigated by the parents, mentors, leaders, and the church community by simply showing how to grow and learn through Love. When we choose to be open to showing how to grow, how to learn, and how to sometimes need help we show the beauty of learning. This is the very foundation of God working through each of us in ways we don’t know; in silent encouragement and empowerment to be better. This support when we needed something to lean upon, to help know we could walk forward, and to help us see the shadow before us is His Rod of Light having our back. The Staff of Love is there for us to lean upon also.
He who spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is careful to discipline him. Proverbs 13:24
The rod when we emulate God’s Love within our home is one from Psalm 23:4:
I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff they comfort me. Psalm 23:4
The rod was never meant to be a stick cut down to beat a child. It was never meant to be a belt stripped by the angry parent’s pants. It was never meant to be a wooden spoon, a hair brush, or broken toy given every Christmas and stored away for punishment expected. The rod was never meant to be an object of hate, nor a stinging flesh of our own hand from anger towards a child.
The rod holds the messages of love for how you choose to love one another through the many lessons of tribulation, my child.
The rod holds the many messages of love meant to help all choose to be within love as they struggle to stand up in a different way.
It was never meant to cause harm, nor hold the messages of hate, my child.
I love thee and wish for thee to be more in love so you may know my love once more.
For child, you are worthy of knowing love in pure intent.
Historical Generational Facts
The history of not understanding this beautiful message, but instead being in anger and beating the lessons into children has impacted generations.
94% of people between the ages of 23 and 108 have been physically harmed because of this generational misunderstanding of God’s Love.
The results around the world from a knowingness of love missing something deeper:
- 59% of the 94% above have blocked out the memories of beatings and minimized them as a spanking
- 81% of these people have allergies in which stem from a lack of passion or love for their life
- 71% of cancer cases around the world stem from pancreatic harm generated from the above
- 49% of the 94% have a or have had a fear of commitment for marriage or having children
- 91% of the 94% have experienced fondling, and sex within a dating environment and/or have generations after them that have done so
- continued anger building within a child stems from this generational pattern, even if the parents broke free from such but in action only
- of the 94% above 1 in 4 of divorces are due to physical abuse
- 1 out of 3 interdenominational churches are developed due to a lack of love and a building desire to be more open to sharing love in broader aspects
- 83% of beliefs in men concerning the value of a female, child or not, are based upon a knowingness of needing more love within themselves and how to formulate that love in how it feels within their life
- 24% of children between the ages of 19 and 21 have lived their life whereby patterns the parent endured are not inherent in their life
Each moment of sexual desire outside the hand of marriage when one is seeking to know love deeper, diminishes what love within a hand of marriage may feel like.
The relationship within a knowing of love for both, is a commitment in love. It has nothing to do with sexual desire. When exploring outside of that depth of love in commitment, love that is received or given may hold versions of love that aren’t true within the intended relationship. This holds true for dating, marriages, and noticing versions of love within the childhood home or another’s home life.
The patterns within society that result from the above relate to:
- 68% of the wars since 1700’s
- 23% of the bills world wide are systematic limitations within society based upon personal reactions to relating energy
- 67% of the challenges women face within the work place in gender inequality
- 29% of the world challenges with regards to racism
- 81% of the world challenges within regards to judgment of another
- 99% of the world challenges with regards to the movement of children away from the home before the age of 18 years
- 91% of the world challenges of poverty before the age of 18 years of age
- 84% of the world challenges of necessary aid in war torn countries
- 72% of the home life challenges surrounding television and technology
- 89% of the home life challenges being within a bed wetting environment
- 92% of the home life challenges being within nightmare environments
- 62% of the intuition challenges world wide in relation to sex outside the marriage
- 100% of the intuition challenges world wide relate to the abuse within a home life
- 19% of homes world wide choose to be guided before an event takes place
- 74% of the homes world wide choose to be guided, in part, to not follow the footsteps of the past
- 19% of Grandparents one generation above or more are helping share the love by encouraging new ways of learning for the children of their future
- 1901 families are choosing to make changes within their way of living due to societal expectations about whom they are
- 452,697,810 people are being different at work because of ways of living at home being improved via growth in this area
- 12% improvements in the stock market in the USA alone between current days events and the crash of 1989 are because of happier people making changes within this aspect of living
- 19 new home improvements within how the homes are designed are due directly to improved innovations being possible with healing in these aspects
- 21 new vehicle designs in safety protocols are directly connected to improved mindset regarding life with healing in these aspects
- 1921 new businesses every year are improved by new growth within mindsets of those that choose to move away from the old patterns of living
- 1,549,682 home life meeting rooms are transferred to a business environment within the first 8 months of business if the home owner approves of such a business growth
The change of growth around the world is abundant and filled with potential opportunity. The changes many are intentionally choosing to make within their life is the way to know the guidance they have is changing lives, not only within their home, but also within many areas of their life and many others also.
Moving Forward
If you are one of the 94% out there, there is hope. I know because on one lonely afternoon, I asked for help in a moment of internal struggle to not hide anymore. I was asked to admit I had been abused. Something in me knew it to be true, but I had justified it as not. I hid it within myself to survive life. I had done work to not repeat generational patterns many years ago, but the justification of what I had experienced wasn’t healed.
God asked me to forgive all.
God asked me to forgive myself for holding onto the burdens for so long.
This is Love.
If He would reach for me, a broken child of abuse, and a broken adult trying to thrive instead of survive He would do the same for anyone.
For you are all my children, little one.
Forgiveness is the key to healing burdens even if the actions to know love, and to live within more love, have happened or are happening. Why? Because you deserve to know the depth of love God has in store for your life. Let’s choose to drop the beliefs and actions around the rod for discipline, and stretch into the Love our Lord Jesus Christ is asking for all humanity.
Let’s choose to remember the comforting Rod of Light to help support us in time of need, and the comforting Staff of Love for those moments we want so to be led into a more loving way of being.
With each home around the world choosing to do so, change ripples through creation. More positive love and being for all to experience is worthy of exploring even if it is one small moment at a time.
What questions can you ponder for topics of lessons your family may choose to explore for the rod of lessons? After all, change to prevent a fire is better within the Holy Fire to help ignite more Love within life itself.




