Valuing Love As It Is

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More than half the divorces around the world stem from a desire to change their partner. This dark seed within the relationship is from seeking a version of love that is coveted from something or someone else. When one does this they devalue the love that is, this article is one to help you in valuing love as it is. When one does this they notice the abundance as it is, within their life, instead of what is expected.

Expectations about anything, whether that be about how a manifestation needs to be realized in exact form, or how a conversation is going to go, limits the abundance of what’s possible because the valuation of what is perceived is limited. When one tries to control the aspects of a magnified abundance being nurtured they are controlling uncertainty out of fear, out of a poverty of trust, and out of a faith stripped of wonder from a belief that faith is action driven.

This last point above was embedded in masks that hid opportunities for many around the world, making us believe that we need to drive our life in ways to create opportunity for ourselves. How is it our child self could not see the wonder of what could be? How is it when I sit with this, it takes a Disney influence to nurture the wonder of the Lord in creative ways? Love in valuation comes from so many ways of being. The wonder within love itself is infinite.

If the wonder within love is infinite then anything in our life can be so also. What I’m about to delve into is a topic that shows you the value within valuing love as it is.

Valuing Love As It Is

Valuing love as it is, is a nurturing way of being that many know from ancient times but have forgotten. It is embedded within whom we are, so trust you will find the way within you, once you find the knowingness of value in doing so.

There is a moment in everyone whereby they just know to do something or see something that fits a dream, goal, manifestation, and so forth. It is simple action that happens in silent trust. It could be turning right and then finding a sign that catches your eye and creates wonder. You may not go in, in that moment, but you may find the sign come up in memory down the road of life and find yourself wondering once more.

It’s finding yourself picking up the phone to call a friend or family member, and finding out through the conversation, they discovered something randomly that caught their attention. Discovering in the moments after, as you wondered about this information that it may just be the missing puzzle piece that ignites an idea you’ve been pondering within your dreams, goals, manifestations, and inspirations.

The flow of  Love that supports you in these ways, can be seen in subtle ways of your chosen love also. It is watching them trusting in the Love within them, then seeing how their love for you flows also. If you can recognize the subtle silent Love within you and trust it, then you have the capability to recognize the important subtle silent ways your chosen, loves you in the way of their being.

This recognition is you valuing love as it is. It is nurturing the gold within the bands of love you have upon your finger.

Celebrating this Value

When we see these details and value them, the relationship grows into a deeper love, because we are valuing the worthiness of those roots we chose to love within any relationship. The basis of this celebrating is knowing and trusting in the Love that you can recognize working within you and in ways this Love is showing you how love is within your life; within your relationship with your chosen love.

The darkened seed within the relationship, when Love flows around it to help it be revived it is like asking a living water to flow around this seed that died over time and be will to watch it come back to life over time also. When you are willing to see the value of Love and allow a living water to nourish the seeds for abundance through Divine Actions you choose to accept and value also, you will start to see Love break ground for you just by letting it be Love.

Recognizing these moments, is nourishing more of Love within your love and building a loving identity that holds your home upon a foundation in love. When you develop a trust in Love for love you are building a foundation knowing value and worthiness for yourself, others, and life. The flow that is honored through your very DNA and the messages that feed love through every cell within your body, within your life, know the value and worth of love and these positive ripples create a magnitude of nurturing abundance you won’t be able to deny as wonder within the faith you began nurturing within yourself.

Outside Influences of Love

Media can play a role as to how love may be defined for society. The way a home life may look on shows or books, may not look like they do at home. Just as meeting someone in life, and seeing different aspects of a person, recognizing what is valued and why it is valued is a path of discovery that helps you know the valuation of why something caught your eye or attention. When you do this, it is an exploration for discovering growth opportunities within your personality, traits, gifts, and life experiences.

But he who is married cares about the things of the world – how he may please his wife. But she who is married cares about the things of the world – how she may please her husband. 1 Corinthians 7:33,34

The sensualized way of how love is within media, can be perceived as a desire for one, and a perceived poverty within another. The “why?” is the question. Why was the desire so? Why was the poverty or lack of {insert trait here} felt? It is a door to explore and one that should consider what the foundation of love is and what can build a love stronger. If the media influence is the only way to express love that you have for another, then find Love within yourself so you may find the words to describe what is designed within your perception of love and why that is. The expectations we have about ourselves and another, influence what we feel is needed for life.

If there is a poverty or lack of some sort, often we believe we need to add something to create a new life experience or way of living, but what if the poverty or lack within how love is defined is something hiding love within us? It could be a belief that is comforting to be in, but uncomfortable for love to be under. As the belief is accepted to be part whom the person is, the desire to find alternate ways of loving begin being sought out.

Opening Up to a Page of Life

When one feels they need or find themselves in a desperation to change their chosen love because they can’t reach love in the way they used to, chaos happens and divorce becomes a potential solution for them and the family. What if opening up yourself to a page of life that is a middle ground for you and your chosen love is a way of choosing to allow that dark seed that became a poverty stricken love within your life, to receive a living water that shows you how to write a new story together? Would you choose to delve into whom you are and begin the process even if your chosen love couldn’t just yet?

When the living water wraps around the darkened seed, the nourishment that begins to soak it, helps the growth within what was intentionally designed for love within Love. Roots begin to extend outward and new life from within that page of life begin to be described within wonderous ways. The moments of love seen in ways you recognize within your being, just matter. They matter more than what was because you begin to notice new life of love from what was, within new eyes that write your story together with different words to describe the life you have created with your chosen love.