Feeling Lost Within a Marriage

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When one is feeling lost within a marriage, there is a gap where it is possible both of you may have set sights to the side of life instead of facing the love within that relationship and nurturing it. This article isn’t about blame, it is about knowing the love you have for yourself and your chosen love and finding ways to uplift that love once more.

Marriage is more than a commitment on paper. It is a promise to love, and to nurture this love together. When we feel lost within a marriage it can feel like you are leaning upon a friendship, that feels like you are roommates sharing space. It feels like the day to day is more important than romance.

Romance, though, is a freedom to express the love in ways that may not be comfortable, but it is seeking the love within words and actions in which you trust. They aren’t defined by another, they are from your heart to your chosen love.

When one feels lost within a marriage the day to day stuff that happens is the focus, and while this is important, because life needs attending, the love you have for your life needs attending also.

My Divine Action for this article was to try and help those whom felt like they needed to let go of the wheel within their marriage so their chosen could explore love in more expanded ways. The perspective of what I’m about to bring is one that may seem confusing but if you allow yourself to sit within a safe space and explore, you will find the compassion and love for your life and for your chosen love.

Feeling Lost Within a Marriage

Feeling lost within a marriage is like standing in a well and the walls are showing the responsibilities of life and lack that is felt within that structure. The waters, the emotions of what is, feels overwhelming and defining. You look, seek, and see what is and wonder where the horizon is taking you.

No matter what life is, or what is going on, the responsibilities and what is within the structures of your life can be seen from different perspective. You are one within the a hand in marriage. You aren’t alone, but may feel alone. The structures within that well you may find yourself within, seeking the love within those waters of your relationship, is not the perspective you seek.

What is needed is a desire to see the beauty of your sunrise, with the one you chose to hold their hand through it all. Find your life line from within the well, this is your Divine Action to help you rise up from the waters in this well, and help you see your sunrise once more.

The structures of the well are there to ensure your abundance is watered and nurtured through a blessing of an underground spring the Lord provides in Love for your life. You don’t need to control what that is, but to see by looking down into the well and find the Divine Actions needed to allow the Love to flow around, and over the life you created, and are creating within your hand in marriage.

Then God opened up the hollow place in Lehi, and water came out of it. When Samson drank, his strength returned and he revived. Judges 15:19

Lehi means a pathway within abundance, the spring waters are nourishing and abundant from a Love of the Lord. Strength according to Isaiah is quietness and trust. When we allow ourselves to be nourished in Love and know love in deeper levels of being within our hand in marriage, and within ourselves for our own independent journey, there is a revival of peace and trust within life, within our marriage and within ourselves. This is the recipe for strength when feeling lost within a marriage.

The hieroglyphics of your life within the well of your hand in marriage, is yours to know; yours and your chosen love. As you let the love grow and build within your hand in marriage the spring waters lift and rise to cleanse what was and help you create more blessings of stories and experiences you get to enjoy within abundance, prosperity, love, happiness, joy, and peace.

Facing the Structure

The walls of the well are the structures of Love the Lord designed specifically within the hand in marriage. The Divine Actions of what can be will help you mend, if you choose, what may feel broken or unstable. The fear or knowingness of what could be or what is, still has Love underneath it all. What hides that Love is fear, unworthiness, a need to retreat and avoid burdens that feel overwhelming. When that happens and one finds their way within that, it becomes easy to forget whom they are, and whom the other is.

It becomes easy to forget the beauty within the love that was noticed before, feeling like that love doesn’t matter, because the bills and burdens of what is, consumed that part of the person and potentially part of you also. When this happens a person may find themselves looking away from what is important for nurturing love within their life. They may find themselves seeking ways to do so, but forget the beauty of what was because it floods with connected burdens of what is.

The hand in marriage

When you said those vows you held the hand of your chosen love. When one is building a loving, nurturing love within a hand in marriage; one with experiences and stories that are your history together, you are standing by the well holding hands together. When you need nourishment or to know where the love is, just lift the bucket within the well and you will find Love there.

When it is difficult within your marriage, the hands are no longer holding each other. Your hands stop being in a receiving form, being willing to support and help, and be supported and helped. As an individual one may find themselves turning their self worth away from themselves and away from the life they are creating within their hand in marriage. When this happens they pointing themselves towards the ditches of life, pushing away from what was. One may feel that the day to day are the ditches in life, but what if the experiences and perspectives of life can be seen within a lens of Love to help you raise a level of love within your life?

What if when you do this, and find yourself seeking Love within that well, you don’t have peer down so far to notice it?

When you find yourself or another potentially gazing at the ditch of burdens, trying to find another way, nurturing worthiness for love is the way. When doing this you change the direction your hand in marriage by beginning to receive a worthiness within yourself, and your life once more. You have the power to do this for yourself. You have power to love your chosen love without forcing their hand in any way.

The Power of the Individual Journey within a Marriage

When you force the hand of your chosen love to do your bidding you are trying to control and assume you have the path forward for them. What if what you assume as a poverty within the love in your marriage, is not what is? What if the poverty of what is within love for their life, is something that was missing from years before you met them? It may not be you, but you saw something within them and they knew it in that moment and the moments after. They saw it from you the moment you gazed upon their face during the vows you made.

Your individual journey within your hand in marriage, is to choose to recognize that which was seen within yourself the moment you realized love seen by your chosen love for you. That was the value and worthiness they saw within you. This is the love of what was and isn’t lost but may have been hidden through the burdens of what became.

Your individual journey within your hand in marriage, is to extend your hand knowing there is worthiness within your chosen love, but finding ways to recognize what you saw within them when you knew the love. This may not be a grand gesture, but it may take you noticing the little details about their character, movements, and ways of being that you maybe forgot to notice.

The Journey at the Well

Let the underground spring of everlasting Love within your life flow up to show you the Love within each moment.

For the Love that is within you can be flowing within the well of your hand in marriage.

It can and will strengthen the walls, the structure of what was, for the life written upon the walls within that well deserves to know the moments love was and is.

With every moment of recognized love within your hand in marriage, the walls realign, and loving waters of life nourish yourself and those within the structure of your home daily.

Let the love you are nourishing within your hand in marriage be the foundation your home needs.

Let Love within the well designed for your hand in marriage be the nourishment to show you love within each moment.

This is the pathway of manifestations for abundance.

This, if you choose, is your act of love for your life.

Acts of Love

It is a commitment within the hand of marriage and one that is a daily choice. It isn’t easy but there are simple steps of choices to be within. The goals within the foundations you chose to build within your marriage together are ones that may be found when you gaze upon your chosen love’s face. The lessons that may become, are from a journey of love found within a King’s love for his bride from long ago; from the Song of Solomon or Song of Songs.

The first is to recognize the hand in marriage as a sacred space for you and your chosen love. There is a sacred promise held within that veil in which others don’t need to know everything about. When this is honored the peace within your chosen love’s eyes are as so; filled with the comfort of safety, security, trust, value, worthiness, love, and peace. When the focus of expressing what is, is to your chosen love, you see the depth of love possible within them. The beauty of what is your life with them is found within their eyes also. If you can be within this space of trust and love, focus on the eyes of your beloved, you will find ways to see the peace and love within them because you took the time and made the commitment to look them in their eyes with love.

Until the day breaks and the shadows flee away, I will go my way to the mountain of myrrh and to the hill of frankincense. Song of Solomon 4:6

The road, or pathways to peace can be fun and playful. They can flow if you allow yourself to let go of the control, you feel is necessary, but allow the nurturing of passion for life to be. When this happens you are seeking a specific nourishment that may not be known but something inside of you will let it happen so the playfulness within abundance is possible once more. Face the shadows within your journey of manifestation for abundance, climb the mountain to know what your holding onto that may be creating discomfort, difficult to digest, or has you holding your breath.

This may not be about another, but it is how you are reacting to life; how you are responding to it. When you come down the mountain seek a space within the hills of life, within the home you are building together and know peace. It is in these moments where the flow of value and worth is held within the freedom you found upon that mountain, and the irritation under your skin is gone when you find your playfulness within life once more.

When exploring a goal for seeking more playfulness in life, will you find ways to see that playfulness being expressed from your chosen love? How do they express this type of playfulness within their life? What has them smile and has them wanting to reproduce more of this type of being within your hand in marriage? What can you do to show your knowingness of this about them?

When you gaze upon the lips of your chosen love, the lips you kiss, will you climb whatever mountain in life you need to, sacrificing the burdens, so you may receive what may become for abundance? Sacrificing what is for what may become, is knowing that the poverty or lack that is felt within the burdens is worthy of giving up so the freedom, healing, and love within what’s possible can be. The blood you are sacrificing for in these moments is your hand in marriage, your partnership in life, and the home life you are nurturing. You are sacrificing the devalued and unworthy parts of what was, to seek a higher version of love within new values and valuations of worthiness for your life together.

Do whatever is needed within yourself and within your hand in marriage to know love within it. Do this by facing your chosen love, knowing you love life with them.

The goal is to nurture the sacred space between you and your chosen love, within your hand in marriage, so they know you are close when you are near. Nurture this so when are close by you see the gift of youthfulness, throughout your years together, continue to be nourished and loved. Do this so your moments together within your life, and matrimonial bed are filled with rejuvenation. Your chosen deserves to know the vibration of you; deserves to know your love flowing close by, to support your gifts in knowing you.

Trust yourself to not speak ill of your chosen love and do not devalue the sanctity of the veil that honors the vulnerability of your love with each other. When you both have this, you know there will be no turning of a head for another, the trust is there. Talking about the secrets of your private lives within the vulnerability of your love devalues the sanctity as it may increase the likelihood of a covet for your life, by another. The peacefulness for what is, may be challenged in those moments, for the lust for love is within a devaluation of such. Protect your home, your love, and your vulnerability that’s inherent within the connection one can have when your hand in marriage is blessed, with a climax of love, meant to know the love bond the Lord has blessed within that blood connection in the heavens.

Will you allow your love to be nurtured through the comfort and the purity of innocence in exploring the wildlands of love? Will you allow yourself to find nourishment within the abundance seen as you recognize your chosen love shine within abundance? When you do this within the hands of marriage, there is no limitations to what love is between the two of you because you are protecting the roots within your home from a drought of love. There is abundance within the roots of your hand in marriage that have the capability of reproducing creative loving experiences that bless your life. Will you explore what fits for the actions above, and see what’s possible for cleansing the hieroglyphic stories within the walls of the well nurturing your hand in marriage? The stories you may tell within the later years need to express and reflect the love you have within your love for your chosen person.