Valuing Your Voice

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Valuing your voice within a relationship is one many struggle with. It is knowing when to talk and when to listen. It is knowing the value of pausing to know when the timing is right and the words also. The struggle that most have is the need to be heard, no matter what.

The problem that lies within these moments is the simplicity of knowing if words are necessary. This article is about valuing your voice within your hand in marriage. This simplicity of what may be received within this message is one that is worthy of creating a muscle memory within a pattern of love within your life.

Let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart. Then you will win favor and a good name in the sight of God and man. Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. Proverbs 3:3-6

Valuing Your Voice

The hand in marriage is one to treasure. Each person is unique and the value and worth within them is what you saw in the moment you knew love. Valuing their independence for being their unique self, is honoring your independence for being your unique self, while also honoring how you come together to be one within a hand in marriage.

When you do so you are ensuring the potential of your hand in marriage is honoring growth and healing opportunities for yourself and your partner in life. The vows within a hand in marriage and how the Lord God wants each to be honored both as a father, daughter, wife, and husband can be found within Numbers 30.

The premise within this blueprint of honoring the vow a wife may make with the Lord for any commitment they feel aligned in making, is done so the Lord is honoring the voice of the husband and His commitment to guiding said husband within their hand in marriage. The sacred vow of a hand in marriage is one that the Lord values and honors to ensure there is a flow of respect and love that is honored between husband and wife.

You may find that the rules the Lord outlines within Numbers is detailed, but I would like you sit back and see the value of your husband, or yourself being guided to respect and honor your love within your hand in marriage. You may, as the husband, have the power to nullify the vow your wife made to God, but does this honor her journey? The choices you make are one to explore with Guidance as the Lord God is just above your head and knows your heart also.

The answers are one to sit with and know that the hand in marriage you have and the love you have between you is worthy of knowing the words to express what is on your heart within love. The Guidance is there for both you and your wife. Trust in the flow of the conversations so you may know what is best for your home going forward.

Difficult Conversations

You both are unique and your individual voice needs to be valued. Life isn’t always easy but when you trust in seeing the value within your chosen love, you will find a way to value them enough to hear them. When the passion for what needs to be discussed sits within a desperation, the shadow of what may have been is lost. The words must come through in trust with the Lord and the Guidance you trust for your positive journey within your hand in marriage.

Make plans by seeking advice; if you wage war, obtain guidance. Proverbs 20:18

The love you have for each other is one needing to be both within the focus of your present but also embedded within the horizon of your life. The season you have together may look one way within your partnership, but note that your chosen love may be experiencing a different season of life than you. This is honoring their growth and yours also. When we lose sight of this the conversations may be within or from an emotional outburst.

Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife. Proverbs 21:9

Valuing your chosen is more than demanding life be a certain way. The hand in marriage is one where you get to choose to listen and know the subtleties of how the love is within your partner in life and how the love flows around your home. Feel that, trust that, and nurture that. This message above is not to encourage a split within the hand in marriage, nor to look down upon a wife, but it is to show you this message of love.

The emotional responses to pushing down or minimizing how one feels builds over time, and eventually the chaos within a relationship may become habitual. This can be for either within a marriage. The true hand in marriage knows to stretch the hand out to be there for the other and trust in the journey walking together.

He who guards his mouth and his tongue keeps himself from calamity. Proverbs 21:23

The words that are needed in any moment are best to come within a Guidance that you get to know within a restful state of being. When the vows with the Lord are discussed and explored together and both are guided as such the flow of potential paths is filled with visions of bounty and prosperity for what’s possible. The difficult conversations wane as the higher perspective of what’s possible builds a foundation for your home to be upon.

Space is Valued Also

When imbalance happens within someone, they need the space for Guidance to come to quietness of trust within themselves. This is strength being built to know they can move forward. When there is an uneasiness or uncomfortable moment within the hand of marriage, space to find balance is better than forcing an issue or expecting a resolution within your defined timeframe. If your partner choses to create space to think or go within for Guidance, be careful not to cross into that space in desperation. Value their voice going within so when the time comes your voice will be valued also.

Please remember this message of love below.

There was a moment when you knew you loved your chosen and it is held within whom they are. When you value those aspects of your chosen and recognize them you won’t lose sight of the value of their voice. When you trust yourself to know you are valuing their growth within your hand in marriage and within their own independent uniqueness, you are showing them the value you have within their worthiness. The worthiness of the foundations you have for your home is reflective of the love you have and share within your hand in marriage.