Addiction to Disempowerment

Addiction to disempowerment is both a journey from devaluing another and yourself, but also a journey held within many growth opportunities. The healing potential for anyone is of value if you choose to shift a habit and pattern into a positive understanding. The difference between a positive understanding and a negative one is:

growth, or blame game
rock under your feet to rise up, or sinking into the ground with your own version of reasoning
empowering another to do themselves, or doing it for them out of a lack of trust
asking for a perspective honoring the person, or going in with an expectation for a result
trusting yourself and another to respond within honoring yourself and the other, or fearfully allowing yourself not to
trusting yourself to seek Guidance, listen, and act within precision, or fearing and not

Addiction to disempowerment is not the same as addiction to external power, because this addiction has a deeper connection to past life abuse or being the abuser than one may believe. I’ll explain further into this article.

Disempowerment is misaligned energy or shadow. If we use this as the basis then when we basically integrate ourselves with a habitual pattern justifying the shadow, or spirit of evil, being used to express our life within life, we are worshiping said evil. Doubt habits, disempower the person within beliefs of worthiness and value. Using your doubt about and within another’s journey is disempowering yourself and another through influencing. The level of this extension into forcefulness grows into bullying, and external power also.

The swings into the extreme are a heresy. The extreme is the habit of not facing what is held within the spirit of evil or the shadow. Not being able to know the lesson, or justifying the pattern upon family genetics or life has happened and this is how you survive, is the heresy held within your life and for your life. It is also the long suffering the Lord has for you where He suffers and holds the most Loving grace and mercy, knowing He’ll find the person or being to help, even if you aren’t willing to go to Him.

There are 4 stages to addiction to disempowerment: personal choice within justification, false security within a tether, aversion to happiness, and pedestal of reasoning.

Stage 1: Personal Choice within Justification

Everyone should have the free will choice to live life within a healthy empowerment. Enforcing your own will upon another is a personal choice, even in reaction to a bullying situation in much the same way, feeding upon the anger. Forgiveness for doing so is held within potential if you want to face these moments. This is true for any emotional response within a belief about yourself or another. The same is true for any experience also.

The flow of knowing the difference between a justified personal choice and hear or knowing a “pause child” moment at any time, is the key to freedom and working your way out of a habitual steeping oneself in the spirit of evil, and enjoying the knowledge of evil within a lesson. The value and trust you have in knowing the timing of when to respond to value another and yourself is held within this potential also.

Your heart may mean well at first but the boundary of what is not seen is blurred. Over responsibility is a reaction to a lack of trust in another. You feel they are incapable of doing what you feel needs to be. This is often justified to being part of or because of being a parent or caregiver. If you can’t see the value in a person, you walk the journey the for them. This is disempowerment.

Enforcing this justification leads to bullying.

The timing held within healthy communication, is lost, when this justification to not hear someone or recognize the signs space is needed for empowerment.

What is the justification for crossing a boundary designed for your relationship with self or with others?

Is this a tether or a bond?

Stage 2: False Security within a Tether

This pattern is held within a grip of justification based upon an unknown past life reaction, a reaction to generational roots in patterns and habits, or what a person knows from their own survival. The tethers in life can become complicated; can become a web of deceit towards yourself within yourself. For example, someone may feel justified in blaming their boss or a friend or family member for being a specific way, creating an argument or continuing it. However, the years of deflecting facing the shadow moments in various ways created a false security within a tether to various unhealed experiences and energies unrealized as learning potentials.

A past life or generational pattern being held onto and how a person or a group of people may have responded to it, is designed into the tether you have been holding. The view on “we’ve always been this way” or “this is whom we are” becomes a badge honoring an identity. This twists the road and the karmic paths become.

Loving family for whom they are is different than justifying the family bond within a disempowering karmic tether.

The generational patterns from someone feeling unworthy enough to say please don’t come over, because they were raped and robbed during a devastating trauma in their life. Them feeling they couldn’t tell someone space was needed, because their own boundaries of safety were violated is them disempowering themselves. This may be a deflection away from Guidance, but it also could be them knowing the Guidance and the timing but when the time became to tell someone to leave, they couldn’t.

For some deflecting in a mocking or humor habit trying to make things seem different may become. The tether held onto was pain and victimhood.

Others disempowering themselves by insisting upon being in the family’s home within an overstaying welcome, or continuing to bring up something because they needed to talk about it is crossing boundaries dishonoring another. There is timing to Guidance and timing to knowing when to listen and what to say in timing. The twist of a plight can’t become the relationship foundation.

Where is the value and worth held within the relationship for this tether?

What tether limits happiness?

Stage 3: Aversion to Happiness

There is a Law of Happiness for a reason, and measuring the level of happiness one has within life is one the Lord does, to try to help anyone willing to learn how to uplift their love for life, even more. This is one aspect of the support you have and can trust if you choose to face the pathways available to help you know happiness within a healthier continuum version.

Needing to use your voice, even in ill timing, is justification to be heard when the other person may not need to know, nor do they desire to be forced to hear. Reacting to an event, negatively, and not being able to communicate within honor for yourself or another is disempowering also.

This type of experience is steeped in chaos and disharmony. Continuing the cycle even though you know you are unhappy, is holding an aversion to happiness. Needing to survive life, and show you have some level of life within you can have you push the unknown to the back in a moment of disassociation or deepened frustration towards the uncertainty. This flips whom you appear to be within two or many parts of whom you are in different pillars of life. The masks hiding the truth build and define you.

How deep does this go within yourself for a habit?

How deep did it go generationally?

Did anyone think of facing this before now?

Stage 4: Pedestal of Reasoning

Generally when a person is justifying their own actions or beliefs they are not standing upon a rock foundation. There is timing to receiving and when this timing is not right for another, or the words expressed aren’t received in love disempowerment is present. The perspectives within situations need to be held within value and worthiness for both in expressing and receiving, for love to be held within light.

Reasoning in over responsibility is justification another can’t do what you expect from them, nor what you expect they need to do. When this continues a codependency can occur. For example, when you ask a person to help you out with something, but then take over because they aren’t doing it right. When you didn’t explain what your needs were prior, or couldn’t accept they way of helping the tethers within the experience and patterns within others deepen.

Reasoning for bullying is often seen through a belief one is a victim and needing to be heard or realized becomes the priority, without considering the other person or people.

The need to stand above another to look down upon them, even within a false compassion or love, to be heard in that ill timed moment becomes the power driven by a need to control OR a fear of uncertainty.

Are you fearing the timing to express won’t become a future event?

What is nourishment held within the need to be heard?

How are you digesting happiness in life?

Is your need to help within disharmony expected or justified, eating away at your happiness?

Addiction to Disempowerment, in Relation to the 10 Most Common Addictions

The pathway to common addictions, is often driven by the need to be accepted or to escape life. The safe path in escapism that leads to these common addictions is due to boundaries of acceptance that become comfortable within the shadows of life. These become natural ways of being, in a shadowed form of whom you are becoming, stretched in allowance to forget even more.

For any tendencies the connection to an environment is a feeding in a craving whereby the chemicals within the substance generate a false sense of balance within the body. Please note the levels are measurements out of ten.

Alcohol, in relation to the six stages, has an energetic commonality that varies with the type of alcohol within the addiction to disempowerment.

Beer: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 4, stage 3 is level 10, stage 4 is level 6
Wine: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 6, stage 3 is level 5, stage 4 is level 2
Spirits: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 10, stage 4 is level 4

Nicotine with regards to addictions to disempowerment, has a similar energetic pattern for various types of smoking, including vaping.

Cigarettes: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 1, stage 4 is level 8
Cigars: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 10, stage 4 is level 5
Nicotine Pouches: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 10
Tobacco: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 6
Vapes: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 2, stage 3 is level 6, stage 4 is level 10
Nicotine Gum/Patches: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 2, stage 3 is level 5, stage 4 is level 8

Marijuana with regards to addictions to disempowerment, have variations in responding to worthlessness and devaluations within generational roots. They are based upon the level of potency of the marijuana as well as the patterns the person developed within life. This relates to any form of marijuana product.

THC of 7-14: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 10, stage 4 is level 5
THC of 14-24: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 10, stage 4 is level 7
THC of 24-38: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 9, stage 3 is level 3, stage 4 is level 2
THC of 38-54: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 6, stage 4 is level 2

Opioids (pain killers) within these types of treatments, in relation to an addiction to disempowerment, follow these types of patterns in levels and stages.

Codeine: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 3, stage 4 is level 6
Vicodin: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 10, stage 4 is level 5
OxiContin: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 8

Inhalants vary in type used and reason, but the patterns are there for those that desire to know the relation to addiction to disempowerment.

Solvents: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 5, stage 4 is level 2
Aerosols: stage 1 is level 7, stage 2 is level 4, stage 3 is level 10, stage 4 is level 9
Gases: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 7, stage 4 is level 4
Nitrites: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 10

Cocaine in relation to the addiction to disempowerment, has patterns in level and stages known to be dependent upon a determination and resistive narrowing to stay true to the fear of uncertainty and needing to control life.

In combination with alcoholic Events: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 6, stage 4 is level 10
For work: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 8
For sex: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 10, stage 4 is level 4
To murder another: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 10

Heroin, including fentanyl, in relation to the addiction to disempowerment, has patterns in level and stages, known to be dependent upon various types of disempowerment in life experienced, via a past life. The past is the past, choose forgiveness as the method of becoming free of perceived karma needing to let life be. If your dharma was born within you, forgiveness is possible. Work to bring change without the burdens reminding to do the work.

Divorce: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 9, stage 4 is level 2
Abandonment: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 2, stage 3 is level 6, stage 4 is level 9
Birth outside of Marriage: stage 1 is level 2, stage 2 is level 6, stage 3 is level 10, stage 4 is level 6
Abuse: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 3, stage 4 is level 9
Rape or Molestation: stage 1 is level 2, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 5, stage 4 is level 10
Spankings, or whippings for punishments: stage 1 is level 7, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 7, stage 4 is level 1
Cast out of society, or a community through gossip: stage 1 is level 2, stage 2 is level 9, stage 3 is level 6, stage 4 is level 10
Denied a purpose by another or many: stage 1 is level 2, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 4, stage 4 is level 9
Murder: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 5, stage 4 is level 8
Theft: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 5, stage 4 is level 4
Fire: stage 1 is level 7, stage 2 is level 5, stage 3 is level 10, stage 4 is level 3
Sex outside of a Marriage: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 7, stage 4 is level 2
Adultery: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 4, stage 3 is level 7, stage 4 is level 2
Drowning: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 3, stage 4 is level 8
Famine or poverty: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 9, stage 3 is level 5, stage 4 is level 3
Addiction: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 6
Guilt for any of the above being a burdened blame for self: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 9, stage 3 is level 3, stage 4 is level 5

Stimulants, benzodiazepines, and barbiturates in relation to addiction to disempowerment, are similar in nature where they tend to treat a low or crash within your life.

Diabetes Type 1: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 9, stage 4 is level 6
Diabetes Type 2: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 10, stage 3 is level 6, stage 4 is level 3
Hypoglycemic coma: stage 1 is level 9, stage 2 is level 5, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 6
Bipolar Disorder: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 10
Juvenile Idiopathic Arthritis: stage 1 is level 7, stage 2 is level 4, stage 3 is level 5, stage 4 is level 9
Narcolepsy: stage 1 is level 7, stage 2 is level 4, stage 3 is level 5, stage 4 is level 10

Addiction to Disempowerment, in Relation to Other Types of Addictions

The addictions or dependencies below are a false desire being driven through a hormone deficiency or a physical ailment growing in harmful ways, similar to a cancerous tumor, but it may not be cancer.

Co-dependency or Relationship Dependencies, are addiction patterns whereby the person is comforted by themselves or seeks comfort from another, but it disempowers themselves and another while doing so. The dependency becomes unhealthy, when other aspects of one’s life are not honored, and becomes out of balance.

Reasonings to coerce an agreement: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 5, stage 4 is level 9
Expectation patterns resulting in an argument: stage 1 is level 2, stage 2 is level 6, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 4
Blaming others: stage 1 is level 8, stage 2 is level 6, stage 3 is level 3, stage 4 is level 8
Escaping with the other: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 6, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 9
Depending for clarity: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 2, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 7
Depending for agreement: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 4, stage 4 is level 7
Reasoning with relationship ties to comply: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 6, stage 4 is level 5
Reasoning to enable crossing boundaries: stage 1 is level 8, stage 2 is level 2, stage 3 is level 6, stage 4 is level 7

Food or Non-Alcoholic Drinks Addiction is dependent upon the significance for the choices.

Poverty in reasoning for sacrifice: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 5
Craving misdirect in avoidance: stage 1 is level 2, stage 2 is level 9, stage 3 is level 6, stage 4 is level 4
Poverty in love of nourishment: stage 1 is level 7, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 10
Poverty in love of life: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 4, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 9
Misdirect for season of life: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 6

Technology Addiction is typically in response to avoidance patterns and escaping truths.

Poverty in valuations for perceptions: stage 1 is level 7, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 5, stage 4 is level 9
Outward patterns for comfort: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 5, stage 4 is level 9
Outward patterns feeding fears: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 2, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 6
Acceptance of societal patterns as fact: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 7
Reasoning to “always have done it that way”: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 9, stage 4 is level 10

Shopping Addiction is typically in response to impoverished passion and inverted emotional mastery.

Poverty in valuations for perceptions: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 10
Outward patterns for comfort: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 9
Outward patterns feeding fears: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 1, stage 4 is level 8
Acceptance of societal patterns as fact: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 7, stage 4 is level 9
Misdirect for season of life: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 10, stage 4 is level 4

Volatile Substance Addiction is dependent upon the draw within intrigue, in combination with a poverty of love for such reactions.

Fire: stage 1 is level 2, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 4, stage 4 is level 8
Explosives: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 6
Vehicular accidents: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 10, stage 3 is level 7, stage 4 is level 5
Firearms: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 9, stage 3 is level 6, stage 4 is level 10
Extreme weather patterns: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 2, stage 3 is level 9, stage 4 is level 6

Sex Addiction is dependent upon the poverty of love and the drive to escape the volatile disharmony patterns, creating a loop of disharmony.

Corporal punishment survivor: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 6, stage 3 is level 9, stage 4 is level 7
Illusionary replacement: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 3, stage 4 is level 10
Media dependency: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 5, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 3
Commitment reasoning: stage 1 is level 8, stage 2 is level 4, stage 3 is level 10, stage 4 is level 8

Gambling Addiction is dependent upon the avoidance patterns of the parents or generational patterns not faced, nor healed.

Emotional avoidance: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 6, stage 4 is level 2
Risk aversion for arguments: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 2, stage 3 is level 10, stage 4 is level 7
Poverty in time management: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 4, stage 4 is level 8
Zero tolerance for outside negative perceptions: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 9, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 6
Endless stream of money beliefs: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 4, stage 4 is level 7
Playing the odds: stage 1 is level 9, stage 2 is level 4, stage 3 is level 6, stage 4 is level 2

Addiction to disempowerment has a stronger past life connection, than many understand or consider important to abuse and anxiety experiences. The aversion to happiness and then pushing the ick in life to the back of the mind to pretend to be happy, continues to drive worry into an anxiety through over responsibility. When you hold the burdens of others upon your shoulders because you feel you are the only one to do it right, while letting the other know you have to do it for them this isn’t honoring the relationship you wanted before this path began, and it doesn’t honor you either.

How will you define your relationships and how you step into them going forward?