Addiction to Disharmony

The unspoken truth about addiction relates to the different pathways, creating instances for choices, leading to the common forms of addiction. Addiction to stress was within another article. This one is regarding the stages relating to addiction to disharmony and how it may show up in levels of behaviors within these stages, and beyond, when it comes to the common types of addiction many know.

Addiction to disharmony may have a connection to how a child is born into their life. The environment the parents are within, by choice, create a disharmony that the child begins discerning for. It is then a child within utero may struggle knowing safety, however they will be comforted in Guidance to know they’ll be okay if they lean upon the Lord.

Disharmony is simple. The leaning into a differential within resistance is the disharmony. This could be an opinion difference, belief differential, aspect of growth within you, and expectations that create an illusion to an agreement that can’t be accepted by the other person.

When I say it is simple to be as it is, it isn’t easy to face sometimes, nor try to accept a path out of it. Why? The blame game within relationships and natural reactions due to an addiction to disharmony are the reason. The significance of doing this creates a poverty of value and worth within your life.

The stages common for addiction to disharmony are isolation, sensitivity to disruption, resolution in beliefs forming bonds, then there is a fulfilling the promise to self via action.

The First: Isolation

I talked about this with regards addiction to stress, but this formation of isolation is different in energetic formation. The disharmony that initiates a potential isolation as the first stages of addiction to disharmony has a distance in relation to the event, yet the disruption of what is accepted becomes a present force of unsafety.

For a child in utero this is a mother being in resistance to another’s opinion or reacting within resistance within how they are choosing to live life. The vibration of the vale and worth known within these experiences versus what is possible is a disharmony of variation natural within the human way of being. How much the child within utero discerns depends upon the acceptance of various lower vibrations they discern for, from both experiences from other lives, or from experiences already occurring in that life.

The reaction to such for a child in utero is naturally to seek Guidance to know how to heal for survival, hopefully for thriving in life also. When the beliefs form a need to isolate from other events in reaction to a pattern, the child may begin forming patterns of isolation relating survival from disharmony. How this is may be different within anyone, depending the patterns of disharmony within the home, and how the child is as a person.

The blessings within experiences as tiny as a child growing within the womb, include the Lord guiding this child how to discern the energy in vibration and formation in any experience they become aware of. Boundaries are one of a lesson the Lord enjoys sharing with each child. Depending upon the experiences a child has through any life, in the womb or otherwise, will include personal choice to engage within discernment, but also how they perceive the discernment prior to and within Guidance. The shadow aspects of life, may be discerned for a knowing and empowerment to be able to heal and grow from it, through it. The healthy aspects of life are discerned for also, so they learn what is and trust in this form of love within the life that’s becoming.

The same is true for any other person that may form isolation patterns at any age beyond the utero. If they find themselves within chaotic surroundings, but don’t know how to leave or if they should, the fear of being unsafe via doubt and disempowerment in knowing how to leave is the initiation of a natural need to be safe. How a person isolates and chooses to be, is important for knowing what is healthy and what feeds an addiction to disharmony. This situation may be true for those whom grew up being spanked or witnessing another being punished in some way. For those that desire to break free of this pattern, please note the “spare the rod, spoil the child” does not mean abusing a child.

If the person begins to isolate and close off experiences within avoidance the barriers form and the addiction pathway begins or continues. This is generally due to not being able to face what was or is, because it is too difficult. This starts off energetically within yourself, and moves to a physical way of being as the number of barriers or boxed and isolated energy impacts your physical wellbeing and, or life.

The Second: Sensitivity to Disruption

The sensitivity to disruption is actively seeking where the disruption may come from, or where it is coming from via a potential expectation. This is the level within an addiction to disharmony. The reaction within the extremes is one we recognize.

The first is to sense something and isolate via whatever pattern for safety became or becomes. There is a difference between leaving a chaotic space or a disagreement, knowing you are being Guided to create space for yourself to learn and grow from the experience, versus doing so to isolate for safety. The sensitivity to disruption may begin by feeling blindsided at first, as in being in a space where there is a disagreement and your nerves become aware of what may be happening.

As one deepens from an isolation tendency, the sensitivity to what may be, may require you to prep for an experience. Often people do this by asking around to see who has disharmony within their life. Gossip…and the spirit of gossip isn’t great for addiction.

For some they may feel this is necessary to know how events may become disrupted, or to stay safe from others doing the disruption. The expectations of whom a person is and how they may react are essentially an agreement being formed within your mind that this experience is destined to be a specific way. The disruption within your mind of what may become, is set, even within uncertainty.

For those that become sensitive to disruption, you may get good at creating different scenarios in mind based upon what you have observed about the person or about people within a generalization also. The generalization is placing a unique person into a group and assuming they will be a specific way because they look like them, or work in the same industry, or something else that may limit your experience with them. In this situation most will form expectations about said events and the people and won’t be open to another form of experience, unless Guidance can be sought after and received to help in time.

The other extreme is not picking up any disharmony at all, and needing to. It is a disruption to your nervous system at that point and it gets under the skin, until you cave and create disruption just to be in the middle of it once more.

Sensitivity to disruption often starts outside oneself or around them, but it can occur within, as growth is started. A person then tends to get addicted in seeking out shadow within themselves. Guidance is the key to recognizing the actions to celebrating a positive flow of abundance potential, instead of needing to “fix” yourself.

The Third: Resolution in Beliefs Forming Bonds

For children in utero, they may have enough experiences, where they develop an impoverished desire to help, by being a “fixer” somehow, in any way possible. This could be in relation to knowing a disempowered mom was carrying them, and they desperately wanted to help their mom know love, just as they wanted to know love also. For others, it may form in much the same way, when someone you care about is disempowered in front of you and you feel helpless enough times, you then form beliefs, as you need to be the one to fix whatever becomes. The risks don’t matter.

As the addiction to disharmony grows, the way you “sniff out” disruption or disharmony that becomes, changes whom you are. The judgment towards another deepens and the formed justifications: about why you feel the way you do, the gossip and perceptions that are formed in beliefs, and the expectations for how to step into this situation purposefully begin to create a pedestal under your feet.

When this happens there is a pull into chaos, or a pull to create it. The desire to fix disharmony within a chaotic, argumentative, or potentially dangerous situation is from an addiction to disharmony. There is an inherent lack of insight with regards to the value and worth seen about yourself and another; meaning there is a poverty being experienced within love known.

The bonds formed are emotional connections and beliefs about situations, and people. They begin the moment you resolve to be within this space while being in agreement for disharmony or to insert yourself purposely within it. These tethers from addiction, may change the experiences and create a satisfying setup for how an event may become.

The solution for purifying the sensitivity is to know value and worth.

It is getting great at seeing and wanting to see value and worth, within your self and within all others.

It is knowing that you may struggle, just as another does also.

All have value and worth, and you can be Guided what to do and say in any of these moments.

When you do as Guided you are trusting you are valuing yourself and all others during these moments.

Note, the moment you choose to believe their Guidance is not, you are in judgment and within the addiction to disharmony.

The Fourth: Fulfilling the Promise to Self via Action

The last stage for an addiction to disharmony is a definitive choice to fulfill a promise to yourself to do whatever is necessary to fix something regarding disharmony. The drive and fix is the need to be there within disharmony, chaos, arguments, etc. The drive to see it, be in it, to feel it, feeds a breathing in life for life. Boredom sits in, if there isn’t disharmony and it becomes a form of disharmony that is uncomfortable, because that’s a sign inward to know a pathway for peace and understanding.

Events get planned to ensure you are up to date for the on goings around you, so you can fix someone, somehow. There is a over responsibility inherent within this type of addiction, where you justify helping as a form of love, but it is a preparation based upon a foundation of: first knowing how to isolate actual feelings and beliefs due to desiring to feel safe, then developing methods to knowing how to get information, and finally choosing to know how to prevent disharmony by inserting yourself in another’s business.

Needing to be in another’s business forcefully is addiction. Trying to prevent disharmony forcefully is creating disharmony. The forcefully is the key here. God isn’t going to put you in harms way without the full knowingness for you to know how to exit and how to say exactly what is needed in any moment.

Creating disharmony is not valuing yourself, nor another. Desiring to see value and worth within an experience, and then flaunting that information, before checking in to know the value of holding that close to your heart, is creating disharmony.

This is a worthy note for those that do the disharmony outside of the home…it grows within home also.

Try not to step into the box of trying to fix your spouse or child, while disempowering whom they are and whom they are capable of becoming.

What if you got good at loving people from afar and enjoying them for whom they are, without feeding off of judgment and your addiction to disharmony? What if when you did this the road to recover was started because you were actively seeking to know a higher version of value and worth within yourself and all others?

Addiction to Disharmony in Relation to the 10 Most Common Addictions

The pathway to common addictions to this level found below, is often a desperation, a way of letting go or giving up because what a person desires to do, to help another, they can’t find a way to do this. It’s this or, in combination, they forgot about themselves in this journey and they don’t know how to fix another…so how can they fix themselves? They can, it’s there within them, just find the Light and Love, please. The pathways are always there. Please note, trying fix another while you are in an addiction yourself isn’t easy. Take care of you, and trust that if you are meant to help another, you will know definitively how to help.

For any tendencies the connection to an environment is a feeding in a craving whereby the chemicals within the substance generate a false sense of balance within the body.

Alcohol, in relation to the four stages, has an energetic commonality that varies with the type of alcohol within the addiction to disharmony. Please note the levels are measurement out of ten.

Beer: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 9, stage 4 is level 5
Wine: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 7, stage 4 is level 6
Spirits: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 5, stage 4 is level 8

Nicotine with regards to addictions to disharmony, has a similar energetic pattern for various types of smoking, including vaping.

Cigarettes: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 9, stage 4 is level 8
Cigars: stage 1 is level 2, stage 2 is level 6, stage 3 is level 5, stage 4 is level 8
Nicotine Pouches: stage 1 is level 2, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 5, stage 4 is level 8
Tobacco: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 5, stage 4 is level 9
Vapes: stage 1 is level 2, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 9, stage 4 is level 4
Nicotine Gum/Patches: stage 1 is level 2, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 5, stage 4 is level 9

Marijuana with regards to addictions to disharmony, have variations in responding to stress and the patterns are based upon the level of potency of the marijuana as well as the patterns the person developed within life. This relates to any form of marijuana product.

THC of 7-14: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 9
THC of 14-24: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 6, stage 4 is level 7
THC of 24-38: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 1, stage 3 is level 6, stage 4 is level 4
THC of 38-54: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 5, stage 4 is level 9

Opioids (pain killers) within these types of treatments, with relation to an addiction to disharmony follow these types of patterns in levels and stages.

Codeine: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 6
Vicodin: stage 1 is level 7, stage 2 is level 2, stage 3 is level 9, stage 4 is level 7
OxiContin: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 5, stage 3 is level 9, stage 4 is level 7

Inhalants vary in type used and reason, but the patterns are there for those that desire to know the relation to addiction to disharmony.

Solvents: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 2
Aerosols: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 4, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 3
Gases: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 5
Nitrites: stage 1 is level 2, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 9, stage 4 is level 10

Cocaine in relation to the addiction to disharmony, has patterns in level and stages known to be dependent upon an attempt to abort the child.

In combination with alcoholic Events: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 9
For work: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 3, stage 4 is level 7
For sex: stage 1 is level 2, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 4, stage 4 is level 10
To murder another: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 6, stage 3 is level 4, stage 4 is level 5

Heroin, including fentanyl, in relation to the addiction to disharmony, has patterns in level and stages, known to be dependent upon various health concerns at work. Safety protocols in addition to what has been implemented is recommended.

Carcinogenic: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 1, stage 4 is level 8
Aluminum exposure: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 9, stage 3 is level 3, stage 4 is level 5
Respiratory disease: stage 1 is level 1, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 4, stage 4 is level 8
Weld Atmospheric Nitrogen: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 5, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 8
Sex trade diseases: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 2, stage 3 is level 9, stage 4 is level 2
Laser Printer chemicals: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 1, stage 3 is level 7, stage 4 is level 3
Tannin process within oak barrels: stage 1 is level 2, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 1, stage 4 is level 5
Chalk dust: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 1, stage 4 is level 9
Oil lubricants: stage 1 is level 10, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 6, stage 4 is level 2

Stimulants, benzodiazepines, and barbiturates in relation to addiction to disharmony, are similar in nature where they tend to treat a low or crash within your life.

Diabetes Type 1: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 5, stage 4 is level 2
Diabetes Type 2: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 9, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 7
Hypoglycemic coma: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 10, stage 4 is level 3
Bipolar Disorder: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 8
Juvenile Idiopathic Arthritis: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 2, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 6
Narcolepsy: stage 1 is level 2, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 1, stage 4 is level 9

Addiction to Disharmony in Relation to Other Types of Addictions

The addictions or dependencies below are a false desire being driven through a hormone deficiency or a physical ailment growing in harmful ways, similar to a cancerous tumor, but it may not be cancer.

Co-dependency or Relationship Dependencies, are addiction patterns whereby the person is comforted by themselves or seeks comfort from another, but it disempowers themselves and another while doing so. The dependency becomes unhealthy when other aspects of one’s life is not honored and becomes out of balance.

Reasonings to coerce an agreement: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 1
Expectation patterns resulting in an argument: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 4, stage 4 is level 9
Blaming others: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 6, stage 3 is level 2 stage 4 is level 8
Escaping with the other: stage 1 is level 2, stage 2 is level 6, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 2
Depending for clarity: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 2, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 3
Depending for agreement: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 9, stage 3 is level 5, stage 4 is level 2
Reasoning with relationship ties to comply: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 7, stage 4 is level 8
Reasoning to enable crossing boundaries: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 5

Food or Non-Alcoholic Drinks Addiction is dependent upon the significance for the choices.

Poverty in reasoning for sacrifice: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 4, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 2
Craving misdirect in avoidance: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 3, stage 4 is level 8
Poverty in love of nourishment: stage 1 is level 1, stage 2 is level 6, stage 3 is level 3, stage 4 is level 9
Poverty in love of life: stage 1 is level 7, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 1
Misdirect for season of life: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 9, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 6

Technology Addiction is typically in response to avoidance patterns and escaping truths.

Poverty in valuations for perceptions: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 5, stage 3 is level 4, stage 4 is level 7
Outward patterns for comfort: stage 1 is level 8, stage 2 is level 4, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 8
Outward patterns feeding fears: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 1, stage 3 is level 9, stage 4 is level 3
Acceptance of societal patterns as fact: stage 1 is level 2, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 3, stage 4 is level 9
Reasoning to “always have done it that way”: stage 1 is level 2, stage 2 is level 5, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 2

Shopping Addiction is typically in response to avoidance patterns and escaping truths.

Poverty in valuations for perceptions: stage 1 is level 2, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 5, stage 4 is level 9
Outward patterns for comfort: stage 1 is level 2, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 5, stage 4 is level 3
Outward patterns feeding fears: stage 1 is level 1, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 4, stage 4 is level 6
Acceptance of societal patterns as fact: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 4
Misdirect for season of life: stage 1 is level 1, stage 2 is level 6, stage 3 is level 9, stage 4 is level 4

Volatile Substance Addiction is dependent upon the draw within intrigue, in combination with a poverty of love for such reactions.

Fire: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 4
Explosives: stage 1 is level 2, stage 2 is level 9, stage 3 is level 6, stage 4 is level 4
Vehicular accidents: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 9, stage 3 is level 10, stage 4 is level 2
Firearms: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 2, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 1
Extreme weather patterns: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 9, stage 4 is level 10

Sex Addiction is dependent upon the poverty of love and the drive to escape the volatile disharmony patterns, creating a loop of disharmony.

Corporal punishment survivor: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 10
Illusionary replacement: stage 1 is level 9, stage 2 is level 4, stage 3 is level 4, stage 4 is level 9
Media dependency: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level10, stage 3 is level 7, stage 4 is level 7
Commitment reasoning: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 10

Gambling Addiction is dependent upon the avoidance patterns of the parents or generational patterns not faced, nor healed.

Emotional avoidance: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 1
Risk aversion for arguments: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 2
Poverty in time management: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 2
Zero tolerance for outside negative perceptions: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 3, stage 4 is level 1
Endless stream of money beliefs: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 6, stage 3 is level 10, stage 4 is level 5
Playing the odds: stage 1 is level 2, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 3, stage 4 is level 1

What’s Next?

The addiction to disharmony is one to take seriously because the ramped growth in judgment is harming humanity, and creation. We can’t live like this anymore. The gossip and judgment fed within the homes, strip away love. The next generation deserves to know more love. Please face what you can and work to break free of addiction to disharmony. Don’t feel you can? There is addiction recovery healing available for you if you choose.

We grope for the wall like the blind, and we grope as if we had no eyes; we stumble at noonday as at twilight; we are as dead men in desolate places. We all growl like bears, and moan sadly like doves; we look for justice, but there is none; for salvation, but it is far from us. Isaiah 59:10-11

We may feel like there is no hope, but salvation is one repentance at a time, and then allowing the spirit within you to be at rest knowing you are supported. With quietness and trust as you move through life repeating this in trust and worthiness for your life, you will gain the strength you need to keep moving forward away from the addictions. As a sacred healer I have the capability and the blessing to offer healing, via my services, for other forms of healing opportunities. There is also more articles and other content I am planning to release in relation to this series. The initial seed planted within my heart came through this video about the unspoken truths about addiction.