Healing Previous Sexual Experiences

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Love and seeking love starts within not within the community you live with or around. The covenants that are being touched upon in various ways around the world are helping many know a higher version of love and how to see and feel that love within their life. Healing previous sexual experiences is one way to heal from layers of version of love that became, but muddied what could have been.

I talked a little bit about this in a previous Acts of Love article, Healing from a Previous Love. The energy that builds within each sexual experience outside the hand in marriage is a burden you may not feel exactly, because you may have masked the Lord’s intention for sexual experiences, to be within the love of the commitment with a hand of marriage. The mask that formed was through the intention of wanting to explore within a lesser form of love or fun. The previous statement about the Lord’s intentional design for such an experience may be shocking and this is okay.

Breathe, He knows the messages our heart is expressing and He is loving you through these moments if you allow yourself to feel His Love supporting you. If you doubt this please take a moment to read the Uplifting Promise for Love by the Lord God Almighty.

Healing Previous Sexual Experiences

Before discussing what may be your energetic patterns in life, let’s talk about the generational patterns of what became acceptable within society to explore love through sex before and for some outside of the hand in marriage. While this is the same, for some it may have looked different through various perspectives.

The blame of what became isn’t the journey. What is the journey is what becomes within a person, within a family, within creation. The journey of exploring love in such a way, is one that stems from a lack of knowing a larger version of what love is. The roots of our ancestral lineage potentially hold energy whereby there was premarital sexual experiences and experiences outside of the hand marriage as well. The deeper this root grows, the likelihood of exploring sex in such a way grows in likelihood also. It becomes a more natural ease in choices for your life; one that may not have you notice Guidance to stop and pause before making those choices.

If the person has ancestors born outside the hand in marriage the likelihood of exploring sex in such a way, is a 1 in 4 chance with each dating event.

If the person was born outside the hand in marriage the likelihood of exploring sex in such a way, is a 1 in 2 chance with each dating event.

Knowing this and the potential energetic pull or masked versions of love that we were born with, can we find grace and compassion within us, knowing we didn’t know and our parents maybe didn’t know everything…even if they were within the extremist for judgment and we rebelled.

What’s important, is this, you matter. 

You didn’t know.

You made choices based upon what was.

The journey of what was is not what needs to be. 

Our Lord Jesus Christ has His eyes upon the moment where blessings of repentance are possible.

For this is the moment where your spirit can be at rest and know love in a deeper, more fulfilling way.

When exploring the depth of energy within you, you may explore how to forgive or heal from generational energy as well as your own journey energy that may feel misaligned.

The Journey that Becomes

The above talks about the ease of sex and sexual exploration when there is an ancestral lineage, but the energy can grow from there. The shame held within can eat away at a person. This may happen with each experience and trying to hide it from another. It could also create expectations within how love may look within other sexual explorations or how those may be experienced. The influences of what is or was change what love could be and in how it may be experienced in all areas of life: how you see yourself and another, how you love parts of your life and present yourself, how you value others and the expectations you have for them, and more.

The lack within the definition of what love looks like may impact how you see creation and be within it. A lack of worthiness may be felt, impacting various aspects of your life: career, relationships, health, quality of life, personal growth, and spiritual journey.  The judgmental energy is one to be careful when moving through life. Being careful not to accept judgment from another but to explore what may fit for a growth opportunity if such happens, so you don’t feel it or find yourself within such an experience. It is also important to not judge another for what they are going through.

Love is an infinite way of being that the Lord God masters beautifully. If you can’t find the words or way of being outside of judgment please lean upon the Lord and He will hear your heart and know you need help for He is determined for all to know His Love once more.

The Hand in Marriage

The Lord God Almighty’s design of the hand in marriage is one where every experience within such is and act of love. When there is a differential in what love could be within this design, versus what is realized, love isn’t experienced in the purity of what may have been or could be.

The grace within the home, and the flow of your hand in marriage becomes a dance in partnership. This occurs within many aspects of your daily life that you may take for granted but the love within those is within the design of the hand in marriage. The little moments build the love and strengthen the bonds held within the hand of marriage. Each moment you reach out to offer your hand to help, or they do is love. Each moment they offer their hand or you do is an act of love.

We must not minimize these actions for they are the foundation of a hand in marriage. They show us the love within each tiny moment of a life building with each other. It is this that the children see and know the love within the home also.

The dance you do within little moments is often forgotten but from Lord’s eyes He sees the flow and movement of Love; Love that he may have designed through loving guidance to help make life flow easier. Will you see these moments in love? Will you know the abundance that flows and dances with notes of blessing in your life?

For those that may not be married, please note that the hand in marriage is a blessing and one you may discover down the road, as an opportunity to know a deeper love than you know now. The journey of what became whether you felt or feel generational pulls or have experienced such, they became the trap that changed what love is. This is the same for whatever influences or actions chosen because of [insert reasoning here] . . . the decisions that made it easy to choose that sexual experience was within a trap.

It is a trap for a man to dedicate something rashly and only later to consider his vows. Proverbs 20:25

The vows we make for life are those for love of another, love for aspects of our life, love of creation. This may look like a life goal, but it also may be a potential hand in marriage. The vows you are choosing to allow within your life are ones built upon a foundation of what love looks like and feels like to you.

An inheritance quickly gained at the beginning will not be blessed at the end. Proverbs 20:21

An inheritance is held within the design intention by God regarding love, for every act within a hand in marriage is love.

For every sexual intention is intentionally designed for love.

Earlier I accounted for the layers of versions of love that became, this is essentially an inheritance quickly gained prior to knowing the journey of knowing love and the truth about a sexual identity. However this may look now, there is a journey of forgiveness the Lord is loving humanity through as they are willing to choose to know a deeper form of love within a hand in marriage, and know a deeper form of love for their life.

Would you want to know a deeper form of love for your life?

The love that may become, is worthy of exploring the healing, that may be possible, if you so choose to explore this within a positive path for your journey forward. The traps in life aren’t worth it, but I will say this, doing the work to move away from a lifestyle that became is worth the journey if the dream for what may become is bigger than what was.