Mama’s Boys and Date Rape Potential

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A mama wants to ensure their boy knows love and finds love. This is what mama’s do. They mean well and love their boy so very much. Mama’s boys know the love of their mama and know the trust they have in their mama. What may not be known exactly is held within the energy, and neither the mama nor the mama’s boy will know so compassion and grace is needed for all please. While the intention is to help all ensure they are more balanced within whom they can become, this is also a warning where if it goes too far into an extreme rape could become from an energetic pull. Rape may not be the intention, but may turn into a date rape if both aren’t aware of the signs and feelings of being pulled or pushing someone into something.

How big of an influence is mama in their boy’s life?

This is the question to consider. If you are a mama you want them standing and walking within their own beautiful self. You want them to become independent and responsible human beings. You want them to love whom they are within every aspect of who they were meant to be.

This is the love of a mama. The next stop to consider is nurturing worthiness for love, as an individual.

Trusting in the worthiness of a child, and trusting them to know when to hold out their hand knowing the worthiness of another,

is the purpose for healing any measuring tethers a mama’s boys bond may hold.

Mama’s Boys

When you are a mama you lean right into those cheeks and tiny fingers taking that new baby in, and loving whom they before you know whom they are. Breathing in new life as you find your way into a different way of life. This is normal.

What is unknown is if mama is on unsure footing being a mother or knowing herself, she’s leaning upon the bright light of her child trying to bring more love into her life. This may energetically mix energy between herself and her child, creating a measuring tether seemingly normal but not healthy.

Some may call it a codependency, but it may not be that exactly. A measuring tether is not the natural bond between mother and son either.

It is held within a belief of genetics being strong.

It is silent and still within an eerie void of space.

The formation begins with the comfort a child brings to a hurt mama.

It is love extended by the need of the child to silently help mama heal.

The bond that becomes is unhealthy but believed to be healthy and strong.

Mama’s boys grow up and if the mama can find her way to independence in know whom she is, mama’s boy will know how to do this too. The entanglement of what may be, is no longer needed to support mama nor child. Mama may want a love to replace her as her boy grows up. If the measuring tether is not healed then the mama may not approve of how the chosen intended love may measure up.

The danger of this measuring tether, is when mama can’t see what her boy is up to but sense a girl worthy of her boy’s love and pulls at this intention hidden inside but deeply influencing the attention of mama’s boy. Healing is possible. But mama’s boys you need to stand upon your own feet and become the men you were meant to become.

Don’t let mama unintentionally influence your sex life.

Don’t let mama fall, unknowingly, by pulling you past a line you can’t fix.

Don’t let mama break knowing you hurt another.

Don’t let yourself lose the chance for a purer version of love for yourself and another, by having your mama’s love overpower whom you are.

Mama’s love is powerful, but if mama and her mama’s boy stand beside each other as independents you know the love is individual and bigger.

Big love is not consuming.

Big love supports and trusts.

Big love is peaceful understanding.

Directional Healing Potential

Forgiveness is the path for healing potential. The journey is there, but so is a healing for mama to know and see whom her child is in new light. The timing for mama to rise and know her true footing is now. When mama does this she gifts her mama’s boy with freedom to become.

The extremes held within labels, don’t need to define the label and there are, as always, continuums within the boundaries of what may have become. A mama can show her love, and a boy can show his mama love also. What’s important is how the energetic influences, influence experiences unknowingly.

Boys and men alike, love your mama’s and your papa’s, but please let their aspects of whom they are be separate from whom you are. Genetics is different. This is energetic pulls and pushes influencing your life in ways you may not realize, through a measuring tether believed to be genetics.

A measuring tether is NOT a natural bond between mother and child, ever.

Notice the intuitive hits when it comes to this measuring tether. These are your #NE2RDOUT moments: Noticing Emotions and Effectively Responding to Directional healing within an Opportunity for Unconditional Trust. Is this the time to worry about your child? Have you pushed aside the worry not wanting to get too involved? What is the Divine Action to nurture a healthy relationship with your boy?

The same is true for mama’s boys wanting a healthier relationship with their mama and any chosen love interest going forward.

It’s obvious by society there are many boundaries having been honored so rapes were not. However the unintended broken hearts along the pathways to finding love, can’t be a mama’s boys measuring tether any longer. If you happen to be one of the broken hearts along the way, forgiveness is needed for you to uplift love known within your life.

Mama’s we do the best we can, with what we know. 

If you don’t know, you don’t know.

Trust in the love you’ve shown your child to know and believe is worthy of knowing and receiving.

Your measurement to remind them is not needed when you know and trust they have their feet under themselves also.

Forgiveness is the way forward to find more of yourself and have less pulls for you also.

As a mama of two wonderful boys, my heart is hoping you receive this with compassion, grace, and trust in the blessing it was intended to become. Writing this stopped over 57 potential date rapes through the grace of God, and 921 people chose to forgive mama’s and mama’s boys for the measuring tethers felt.