Wedding Dreams

As I sat and wondered how to honor my commitment to include a friendship offering for this month as we enter a New Moon once more, I felt this article breaking ground in design. The seeds planted over many months or years for many, as they chose to honor their chosen love in a commitment is heartfelt and designed. The road towards the alter when the timing is allowed often feels stressful. Money, time, location, whom to invite, whom to not invite, and then the disharmony amongst those invited or desiring to do so…then time breaks or freezes because navigating that mountain becomes a dump into the sea of overwhelm.

This is what I’d like to offer you instead, a fluidity of exploration for coming together in wedding dreams; sculpting your future together in ways you are doing this for you.

Love is what is important in this equation between you and your chosen love. Don’t lose sight of this. You entered a door of forged opportunity for love. The relative value of this opportunity to be married was a yes. How the manifestation looks is the dream. Your wedding dreams and how they look to you and to your chosen love, can’t be missing your love for each other and for your future together.

The wedding dreams you have must be forged together as you are coming together as one. The stress within this design for a wedding dream can’t fracture your love, nor your love for life. Stress hardening is metal forming technique where the heat works with the metal and allows it to bend and flow into a new formation. This is what your passion for your love should be doing to sculpt your future together. When the heat is wrong during these moments the fractures happen and the love for what designed but didn’t come together fractures with it.

There is Guidance helping everyone through the moments to help bring wedding dreams into fruition, if you allow the stress hardening to be exact in design for the forged opportunity. The Lord knows what you can afford. He knows what is held in potential. It is also known what timing and location would work, to accommodate a fluidity of love reflected within each moment leading up to the day, and throughout the day also.

Wisdom within the manifestation journey is knowing the relative value leading into what the dream could look like and feel like.

What does the event need to look like?

Why is this important?

How is this sculpting your future together?

What can be done to smooth the edges and prevent any fractures?

Sculpting Your Future Together

The unique artform for your future life together is one that begins the moment you find your chosen love and begin to find your natural rhythm in life together. Your fire holding your passion and purpose together, in life and for your life, is one where nourishment is developed and created for your life together. The dreams and manifestations are unique as individuals but also for your home. Each moment something begins to form, there is rock and stone helping your passion know how to bring each ingredient together as planned.

Consider what isn’t working and what can bring forth a breakthrough?

Stress within a forged opportunity doesn’t need to be felt, nor expected. It may be seen but the fluidity of solutions through Divine Actions and Inspired Actions just allow the direction and timing for any experience to become. It is looking at the big picture and trusting the solutions will work.

A Letter to my Friends

I love you all, and desire for you to have the wedding of your dreams. Dreams flow in design along with relative perspectives or valuations as to what is held in importance. Originally I wanted a destination wedding, and to be honest one with friends and not family. Reality set in quickly and the love and excitement felt from family and those extended along the way fit for what we needed for our dream wedding. We chose the small town location and we had a simple wedding with many friends and family, both local and far away. It wasn’t a designer wedding by any means, but in the end it didn’t need to be.

We were 18 and 19 years old choosing love over a big budget wedding.

The time and forged potential made our wedding dreams become.

My wedding dress was bought from a man whom was left at the alter. We had invites designed and printed at the University. Those invited knew love was held. Three weeks before our wedding we were in an accident and could have died. The insurance rep. told me I shouldn’t have survived based upon the details of the accident. My fiancé, at the time, and I were hit by a semi and pushed into the ditch. We flipped end over end three times after hitting an old farmer’s approach. The side walk blocks my dad had in the back of the truck flew over the truck into the field instead of taking our heads off. Stress…yep.

The Lord had someone stop and help us. They knew my mom. They called her and also helped me out of the truck. My fiancé was unconscious hanging upside down, and I was disorientated. I was approached by a man coming to my aid and didn’t want to leave Nelson. I thought he was dead. My biggest fear wasn’t for my health, it was being a widow before walking down that aisle. My soul broke when I was 15 and moved away from knowing him in high school and finding him again was a blessing. I needed him to live so my soul didn’t break again, and God knew it.

He came to briefly to tell me to get out of the truck. That man can see me in a panic and say anything calming me straight. I got out of the vehicle and tried to pull my purse out from under it. The cash within it I needed for our wedding. Nelson and I were placed into an ambulance, and his head injury was known. He would come in and out of consciousness. For me I wasn’t allowed to. I had about a one inch cut on my wrist, and potential internal injuries. We arrived at the closest hospital and there was a strike.

Nelson was held there over night for observation, in the hallway. For me, my dreams of a specific hair style went away when they saw blood and cut the elastic from my hair. The bruising had begun already and my mom loving told me I had black eyes. Stress…yep.

The nurses whom were working took care of me and there were arrangements made to transfer me for potential emergency surgery at another hospital. The hospital was the very one my roommate’s dad worked as a doctor. He wasn’t the surgeon but I was blessed with a visit during my 10 day stay. During that time my roommate gathered help to move out my stuff as well as her own belongings. Family finished the remaining plans for the wedding events. The minister drove over 4 hours to visit me, just to confirm if the wedding was still on.

My response without my fiancé’s choice…”If I need to be rolled down that aisle on a gurney, I’m marrying that man!”

Love was the only path forward, and while the wedding became what it was, 33 years later we are still forging life together. As for the dream of a beach wedding, Nelson made that happen on our 21st wedding anniversary with our three children. It was our family of five, the minister and his lovely wife. They made traditional Hawaiian lei’s for each of us, we chose the beach which I found from a Pinterest picture. We even had pictures taken by the tree which was in that picture of inspiration, for Old Kona Airport Beach. It was simple. I bought a dress this time, new and we had the most beautiful family vacation designed in flow with the kids.

Through all the twists and turns of what became in any event the forged opportunities helped sculpt our future together. Wedding dreams flow now into the dream like memories of the love we have for our life together. This is the path from a perspective beyond the engagement. I hope you receive this in love. Please do not let money, time, location, and the other chaos of whatever create disharmony in what you could design within your wedding dreams.