Addiction to Fitting In

Addiction to fitting in happens when one is seeking a path but isn’t trusting whom they are. On the surface trying to fit into societal expectations feels like the path, but does it water a person’s uniqueness down? The ridges upon your finger tips are your own unique identifier and are there to help remind you to be unique in every way of being. This is to honor whom you are.

The root to a pathway of addiction to fitting in, begins when you discover yourself in a new space where you are uncomfortable. The path to this uncomfortable may have been beyond your control, especially if you were along the ride with someone you love. The moment of being placed in an unknown territory where something within you knew the boundary of comfortable growth was stretched too far. There was resistance and the stage for a pathway was formed, potentially from addiction to stress.

When this happens there is a pull back in reaction to control the uncertainty and repeated patterns of this feeds into an anxiety or worry pattern. The outward checking and adjusting a target to try and figure out how to fit in, leads to a perfectionism pattern, also feeding the worry and anxiety. The masks a person chooses to wear to try to fit in to various aspects of their social life and other parts of their life lead to a people-pleasing pattern, feeding the worry and anxiety.

There are stages to the addiction to fitting in to be aware of, for growth away from the path, but also to help you recognize another’s journey with more grace and understanding. Learning and seeing the uniqueness of someone is a blessing, and being part of that journey of them nurturing this within them so they shine, is finding the precious metals of life and living within them.

There are six stages of addiction to fitting in: uncomfortable change in variable, isolating habit, exploring the grey areas, bending the rules (I called this risk analysis in the addiction to stress), safe path in escapism, and class identity. The addiction to fitting in is much like forming safety blankets to go within for comfort or to hide under. When this happens the mountain climb to rise up in life has a low cloud covering.

And He will destroy on this mountain the surface of the covering cast over all people, and the veil that is spread over all nations. Isaiah 25:7

When climbing a mountain trying to rise up in society it can become difficult. The weights carried trying to fit in, just to be seen, can feel like you are dragging a pallet of rocks behind you. It can create situations where you go so far and then fall and get pull back forcefully. This is the addiction burdens shoved in a closet, while the masks adorned to fit in will feel light they are the diminished light of whom you actually are.

The boundaries identified within these mountains shaping your identity are difficult to climb because of the masks chosen to wear to fit into a societal expectation felt was necessary to survive or thrive in life. The trust in yourself, other, or in God is a journey up a mountain, but if the weights are too heavy the valley is there for you also. Be prepared for the moment of trust when upon the mountain, because when you choose to shatter those masks and have the safety blankets destroyed, whom you are will be seen by many also. This is the covering the Lord is willing to destroy, and the veil is what people are forced to look through when you aren’t capable of being whom you are.

The 6 Stages to Addiction to Fitting In

Stage 1: Uncomfortable Change in Variables

The uncomfortable changes in variables can be intentional and work in your favor in growth opportunities, but when they are out of your decision you can feel like the space is converted to an unknown territory. The boundary of what you may have assumed going in, doesn’t fit for what you are comfortable being in. Adjustments are needed to adapt, but if you are overwhelmed how you respond makes the difference between trust and non-confidence in yourself and others.

Relationships within a comfort zone, has a person know what to expect. This is the perception many have about an experience. When someone doesn’t reflect that way of being the way you react in response, is reflective of how comfortable you are with the change in expectation. If you aren’t ready to move forward within an experience as you, but feel forced, the movement in shadow aspects of imbalance will be difficult to adjust also.

The unexpected when you have a habit formed in blindsided situations that may have been harming already, may dig this resistance to change into an anchor into the ground and want the knowingness of what’s to come be a cemented situation.

Stage 2: Isolating Habit

The isolating habit is the intentional choices to hide an emotion, belief, or choose not to interact when you are being empowered by Love and Light to help you know you matter within any experience. Hiding from an emotion is turning away from yourself. If you need to express always just to be included or to fit into society this is isolating from what’s healthy as a habit just to shine in any way.

There is an inherent desire within the hearts of our souls to know balance in ways of being. This Guidance through Love and Light is unconditional and through the Law of Balance. Fear of being yourself, or being within an uncertain situation not knowing how someone may react or accept you may have you isolate parts of yourself as you observe the people within that experience so not to trigger something. The self blame as a natural reaction to being within uncomfortable or stressful situations, often times from abusive.

The uncomfortable imbalance in life is the ox within you, that was venturing into new territory, running around in various ways sometimes knocking things over unsure of how to navigate the space your in. This is often depicted as a bull in a china shop. What happens when choosing to isolate habitually in a social environment is the perceived broken glass from others, is for you to tip toe around so not be cut within your value journey forward.

The connection to knowing the effects of being a bull in a china shop, is also you knowing you fit in somewhat. When you are in this space of acceptance you will find yourself isolating pathway to know how and what you are willing to share of yourself to continue fitting in, as well as what you may have to change about your personality to fit in. What you are afraid to share for fear of not being accepted is intentionally shoved in a closet or placed behind a mask not to be seen when you choose to nurture the isolating habit. The change in personality in order to fit in, is the mask designed specifically to help you get through those types of experiences.

The longer you wear the masks designed, the more they integrate into whom you become, but the weights of whom you really are being hidden in fear or shame aren’t healed. Often when the burdens become to heavy the anxiety or other illness, including heart problems become realized within the physical body or life.

Stage 3: Exploring the Grey Areas

This next step is somewhat of a comforting energy to know adventure and exploration within this new space, is possible because you found someone or people whom get you. You begin to venture out and find grey areas where you feel uncomfortable and may get you into trouble also. How you venture through this grey area within the new territory is then feeding into the shadows you hadn’t quite found a way to completely heal from.

Finding out more about yourself is part of life, and I’m not saying adventure or venturing into new territory is bad because it isn’t.

The grey areas, are areas or zones of the new territory where you feel you need to be someone different just to be within that experience, before you are ready.

The differential between a grey area and one within a healthy exploration of whom you may become is knowing the root of why you are exploring; being honest within a strong integrity of whom you know yourself to be. The masks of what became can’t be included and this is a raw exploration that may feel like exposure. A grey area is being within an experience from within a shadow journey, and even though you know you are uncomfortable, you choose to define yourself based upon those you are fitting in with.

Stage 4: Bending the Rules

Bending the rules is the risk analysis within an addiction to stress. It is the moment you say yes to an experience where you feel you need to be someone else just to be accepted. You bend the rules by wearing the uncomfortable to fit in and put on the mask before leaving the house to go experience the uncomfortable to fit in some more. The risk analysis was there and the stress felt had you adjust the uncomfortable and adjust your persona to get through what needed to be.

The spirit within you though wanted to be at home, relaxing and trying to find that part of you lost years ago. You bent the rules by choosing to keep that part of you stuffed in the closet or under your bed for a later time. Busy becomes your identity with every rule breaking moment.

One of the healthiest boundary lessons in life is knowing when to move and when to rest; knowing both are productive. When you move to avoid you are bending the rules.

Trying to control uncertainty is bending the rules. When you choose to be busy and bend into another’s space to “help them” but end up doing it for them, you are bending the rules. How does this fit as a reason for doing so? Is it because you need to have thing look and be a specific way to fit in? This is doing something out of an over-responsibility and it feeds into worry and anxiety patterns. In these moments you are trying to control uncertainty.

When you desire to rise up to a challenge or want to break free of an impoverished state of being within you, but bounce because you are afraid of not fitting in the way people see you, you are bending the rules. Your heart desire was to rise up. The Guidance is there showing you how to do so, but the fear of former bonds or new potential connections not working has you bend the rule you chose to accept.

Stage 5: Safe Path in Escapism

Seeing the misstep in Guidance isn’t always easy. The distortion from the first three stages may have you acting within a narrow mindset. This narrow mindset is the safe path in escapism, where you find habits and patterns to help you stay within a comfort zone even though deep down you are uncomfortable.

Escapism is the identity forming to try and be someone specific through all the masks formed prior. There are safe paths your brain formed and you begin to feel safe, until the health and wellbeing in your life crashes. The safe paths are your strategies for getting by and can fit in any experience in various ways. How are you defining the reason for escaping into being different for another?

Trying to control uncertainty, with regards to escapism, is being fearful of the abundance being limited if you are your true self. Adjusting to fit in to various situations, feeling you need to not be yourself is escaping via perfectionism. People-pleasing tendencies are the ways you leave your true self behind and choose to be whomever you need to be to fit in. The escapism to the limiting acceptance of whom you actually are deep within feeds depression, worry, and anxiety.

The addiction of fitting in, not knowing whom you are any longer, while feeling you do know, has you carve out a part of you trying to trust through escapism.

When you do this you find yourself caving in and slicing up relationships just to find yourself again. The isolation desired may have other fearful of the depression you were trying to escape from. If they push or try to pull you into your patterns of escapism in an outward way, the need to use the sword of the darkened spirit within you to lash out in anger becomes apparent. They want you to be whom they know you to be within the escapism from before, but you need to find a different safe path to help escape from the version of you that became; the version that hides whom you actually are.

The narrow pathway to breaking free of this habit is knowing the value and worth of whom you are without a mask and choosing to shatter each one intentionally; to break free of the addiction to fitting in.

Stage 6: Class Identity

The labels of whom a person chooses to accept themselves is a form of an identity. The lower, middle, upper class societal ways of living or being many identify with, but also allow those labelling separations of society to become their identity. The identifying expressions about where a person comes from or the ancestral roots, form pathways of a class identity within the brain impacting your need or desire to formulate a picture of whom you are verses whom you need to become.

The class identity that becomes is a reason not a significance for why an addiction to fitting in became. What you choose to lay down as a path for how to fit in to any class identity is the road chosen along an addiction to fitting in. In Galatians 5 we are told not to walk in the lusts of the flesh. In verse 20 we are told that dissension is a sinful way of being. This is separating ourselves within a broken harmony. When we believe we are not valued enough to fit in, and purposely change ourselves to fit in via an addiction, we are living in the lusts of the flesh.

Separating yourself by choosing to avoid parts of whom you are not letting other see that part of whom you are, is dissension also. The answer is this…

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law. Galatians 5:22-23

The addiction to fitting in, within this identity forming belief system is one where the masks worn reflect your new identity. The drive from within you to be whom you are meant to be without hiding, is deepening an addiction when you force yourself to avoid the missing parts of whom you actually are.

Addiction to Fitting in, in Relation to the 10 Most Common Addictions

The pathway to common addictions, is often driven by the need to be accepted or to escape life. The safe path in escapism that leads to these common addictions is due to boundaries of acceptance that become comfortable within the shadows of life. These become natural ways of being, in a shadowed form of whom you are becoming, stretched in allowance to forget even more.

For any tendencies the connection to an environment is a feeding in a craving whereby the chemicals within the substance generate a false sense of balance within the body. Please note the levels are measurements out of ten.

Alcohol, in relation to the six stages, has an energetic commonality that varies with the type of alcohol within the addiction to fitting in.

Beer: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 5, stage 3 is level 3, stage 4 is level 7, stage 5 is level 2, stage 6 is level 8
Wine: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 5, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 5, stage 5 is level 8, stage 6 is level 4
Spirits: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 6, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 9, stage 5 is level 8, stage 6 is level 4

Nicotine with regards to addictions to fitting in, has a similar energetic pattern for various types of smoking, including vaping.

Cigarettes: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 6, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 9, stage 5 is level 4, stage 6 is level 10
Cigars: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 5, stage 4 is level 2, stage 5 is level 9, stage 6 is level 2
Nicotine Pouches: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 6, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 9, stage 5 is level 4, stage 6 is level 6
Tobacco: stage 1 is level 1, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 4, stage 4 is level 7, stage 5 is level 3, stage 6 is level 9
Vapes: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 6, stage 3 is level 10, stage 4 is level 6, stage 5 is level 8, stage 6 is level 3
Nicotine Gum/Patches: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 3, stage 4 is level 8, stage 5 is level 10, stage 6 is level 3

Marijuana with regards to addictions to fitting in, have variations in responding to stress and the limiting patterns within valuations of true freedom, are based upon the level of potency of the marijuana as well as the patterns the person developed within life. This relates to any form of marijuana product.

THC of 7-14: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 9, stage 3 is level 10, stage 4 is level 3, stage 5 is level 8, stage 6 is level 8
THC of 14-24: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 5, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 4, stage 5 is level 7, stage 6 is level 2
THC of 24-38: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 6, stage 5 is level 10, stage 6 is level 9
THC of 38-54: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 8, stage 5 is level 5, stage 6 is level 7

Opioids (pain killers) within these types of treatments, in relation to an addiction to fitting in, follow these types of patterns in levels and stages.

Codeine: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 6, stage 4 is level 10, stage 5 is level 8, stage 6 is level 3
Vicodin: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 6, stage 5 is level 4, stage 6 is level 2
OxiContin: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 6, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 8, stage 5 is level 5, stage 6 is level 10

Inhalants vary in type used and reason, but the patterns are there for those that desire to know the relation to addiction to fitting in.

Solvents: stage 1 is level 2, stage 2 is level 6, stage 3 is level 4, stage 4 is level 3, stage 5 is level 8, stage 6 is level 10
Aerosols: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 3, stage 4 is level 9, stage 5 is level 10, stage 6 is level 3
Gases: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 10, stage 3 is level 7, stage 4 is level 4, stage 5 is level 2, stage 6 is level 8
Nitrites: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 7, stage 5 is level 9, stage 6 is level 10

Cocaine in relation to the addiction to fitting in, has patterns in level and stages known to be dependent upon isolating and escapism patterns in combination.

In combination with alcoholic Events: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 4, stage 3 is level 9, stage 4 is level 2, stage 5 is level 4, stage 6 is level 9
For work: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 5, stage 3 is level 9, stage 4 is level 3, stage 5 is level 10, stage 6 is level 6
For sex: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 3, stage 4 is level 8, stage 5 is level 1, stage 6 is level 9
To murder another: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 8, stage 5 is level 10, stage 6 is level 7

Heroin, including fentanyl, in relation to the addiction to fitting in, has patterns in level and stages, known to be dependent upon various health concerns at work. Safety protocols in addition to what has been implemented is recommended.

Carcinogenic: stage 1 is level 2, stage 2 is level 6, stage 3 is level 4, stage 4 is level 8, stage 5 is level 7, stage 6 is level 3
Aluminum exposure: stage 1 is level 2, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 10, stage 4 is level 5, stage 5 is level 4, stage 6 is level 9
Respiratory disease: stage 1 is level 10, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 8 stage 4 is level 3, stage 5 is level 9, stage 6 is level 10
Weld Atmospheric Nitrogen: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 9, stage 3 is level 3, stage 4 is level 9, stage 5 is level 4, stage 6 is level 2
Sex trade diseases: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 4, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 2, stage 5 is level 5, stage 6 is level 10
Laser Printer chemicals: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 9, stage 5 is level 3, stage 6 is level 7
Tannin process within oak barrels: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 4, stage 4 is level 2, stage 5 is level 8, stage 6 is level 10
Chalk dust: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 6, stage 3 is level 9, stage 4 is level 10, stage 5 is level 3, stage 6 is level 9
Oil lubricants: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 9, stage 5 is level 5, stage 6 is level 7
DEHP (Di-2-ethylhexyl phthalate): stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 10, stage 3 is level 4, stage 4 is level 7, stage 5 is level 3, stage 6 is level 8

Stimulants, benzodiazepines, and barbiturates in relation to addiction to fitting in, are similar in nature where they tend to treat a low or crash within your life.

Diabetes Type 1: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 10, stage 5 is level 6, stage 6 is level 10
Diabetes Type 2: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 3, stage 4 is level 8, stage 5 is level 7, stage 6 is level 10
Hypoglycemic coma: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 7, stage 5 is level 6, stage 6 is level 9
Bipolar Disorder: stage 1 is level 2, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 4, stage 4 is level 9, stage 5 is level 10, stage 6 is level 3
Juvenile Idiopathic Arthritis: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 6, stage 4 is level 5, stage 5 is level 2, stage 6 is level 9
Narcolepsy: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 1, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 3, stage 5 is level 4, stage 6 is level 7

Addiction to Fitting in, in Relation to Other Types of Addictions

The addictions or dependencies below are a false desire being driven through a hormone deficiency or a physical ailment growing in harmful ways, similar to a cancerous tumor, but it may not be cancer.

Co-dependency or Relationship Dependencies, are addiction patterns whereby the person is comforted by themselves or seeks comfort from another, but it disempowers themselves and another while doing so. The dependency becomes unhealthy when other aspects of one’s life is not honored and becomes out of balance.

Reasonings to coerce an agreement: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 9, stage 5 is level 10, stage 6 is level 6
Expectation patterns resulting in an argument: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 10, stage 3 is level 7, stage 4 is level 5, stage 5 is level 3, stage 6 is level 9
Blaming others: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 5, stage 3 is level 10, stage 4 is level 5, stage 5 is level 2, stage 6 is level 8
Escaping with the other: stage 1 is level 7, stage 2 is level 2, stage 3 is level 10, stage 4 is level 8, stage 5 is level 3, stage 6 is level 7
Depending for clarity: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 3, stage 4 is level 6, stage 5 is level 10, stage 6 is level 9
Depending for agreement: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 6, stage 3 is level 9, stage 4 is level 3, stage 5 is level 7, stage 6 is level 10
Reasoning with relationship ties to comply: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 2, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 5, stage 5 is level 10, stage 6 is level 7
Reasoning to enable crossing boundaries: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 2, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 5, stage 5 is level 10, stage 6 is level 6

Food or Non-Alcoholic Drinks Addiction is dependent upon the significance for the choices.

Poverty in reasoning for sacrifice: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 2, stage 3 is level 7, stage 4 is level 10, stage 5 is level 5, stage 6 is level 7
Craving misdirect in avoidance: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 7, stage 4 is level 9, stage 5 is level 3, stage 6 is level 4
Poverty in love of nourishment: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 2, stage 5 is level 10, stage 6 is level 7
Poverty in love of life: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 2, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 10, stage 5 is level 8, stage 6 is level 5
Misdirect for season of life: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 4, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 7, stage 5 is level 10, stage 6 is level 3

Technology Addiction is typically in response to avoidance patterns and escaping truths.

Poverty in valuations for perceptions: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 9, stage 4 is level 3, stage 5 is level 1, stage 6 is level 6
Outward patterns for comfort: stage 1 is level 7, stage 2 is level 10, stage 3 is level 3, stage 4 is level 9, stage 5 is level 4, stage 6 is level 7
Outward patterns feeding fears: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 10, stage 5 is level 7, stage 6 is level 6
Acceptance of societal patterns as fact: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 9, stage 3 is level 10, stage 4 is level 4, stage 5 is level 7, stage 6 is level 2
Reasoning to “always have done it that way”: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 9, stage 4 is level 6, stage 5 is level 1, stage 6 is level 9

Shopping Addiction is typically in response to avoidance patterns and escaping truths.

Poverty in valuations for perceptions: stage 1 is level 8, stage 2 is level 4, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 8, stage 5 is level 10, stage 6 is level 9
Outward patterns for comfort: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 4, stage 5 is level 9, stage 6 is level 10
Outward patterns feeding fears: stage 1 is level 10, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 5, stage 5 is level 1, stage 6 is level 7
Acceptance of societal patterns as fact: stage 1 is level 8, stage 2 is level 5, stage 3 is level 3, stage 4 is level 8, stage 5 is level 10, stage 6 is level 7
Misdirect for season of life: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 5, stage 3 is level 7, stage 4 is level 10, stage 5 is level 3, stage 6 is level 7

Volatile Substance Addiction is dependent upon the draw within intrigue, in combination with a poverty of love for such reactions.

Fire: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 4, stage 3 is level 1, stage 4 is level 7, stage 5 is level 9, stage 6 is level 4
Explosives: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 9, stage 4 is level 7, stage 5 is level 3, stage 6 is level 7
Vehicular accidents: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 5, stage 5 is level 8, stage 6 is level 10
Firearms: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 3, stage 3 is level 8, stage 4 is level 6, stage 5 is level 10, stage 6 is level 9
Extreme weather patterns: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 9, stage 3 is level 10, stage 4 is level 3, stage 5 is level 7, stage 6 is level 5

Sex Addiction is dependent upon the poverty of love and the drive to escape the volatile disharmony patterns, creating a loop of disharmony.

Corporal punishment survivor: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 4, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 7, stage 5 is level 9, stage 6 is level 10
Illusionary replacement: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 6, stage 3 is level 3, stage 4 is level 8, stage 5 is level 10, stage 6 is level 3
Media dependency: stage 1 is level 6, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 5, stage 4 is level 2, stage 5 is level 6, stage 6 is level 4
Commitment reasoning: stage 1 is level 1, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 5, stage 4 is level 9, stage 5 is level 4, stage 6 is level 7

Gambling Addiction is dependent upon the avoidance patterns of the parents or generational patterns not faced, nor healed.

Emotional avoidance: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 7, stage 5 is level 9, stage 6 is level 10
Risk aversion for arguments: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 6, stage 4 is level 3, stage 5 is level 9, stage 6 is level 10
Poverty in time management: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 6, stage 4 is level 2, stage 5 is level 8, stage 6 is level 6
Zero tolerance for outside negative perceptions: stage 1 is level 5, stage 2 is level 9, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 10, stage 5 is level 7, stage 6 is level 5
Endless stream of money beliefs: stage 1 is level 3, stage 2 is level 8, stage 3 is level 2, stage 4 is level 6, stage 5 is level 3, stage 6 is level 9
Playing the odds: stage 1 is level 4, stage 2 is level 7, stage 3 is level 10, stage 4 is level 8, stage 5 is level 3, stage 6 is level 1